I go to school with this amazing girl. We started out as friends, and we'd talk all the time in class and online. After a while, I realized she wanted to be more than friends, and that made me uncomfortable. See, I was completely attracted to her in every way but physically. At the time, she was really overweight and no matter how much I wanted to, I couldn't find her physically attractive. She'd ask to hang out, and whether she meant it as friends or more, I don't know, but I'd say I had plans so she never got the wrong idea.
Well, now she's dropped all of the weight and she looks fantastic. We were still friends up until I asked her out, and she told me, flat out, no, because she was still the same person as before and even though she STILL LIKES ME, she couldn't deal with the fact that I only like her now because she's attractive.
But I liked her before! I just wasn't attracted until now. Am I wrong to pursue her? Should I give up or talk to her about it?
2006-12-14
17:40:01
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