im 19 years old and i dont konw how to have ESS EEE EXX
where do you learn........ why dont i know? im so left out?....
this is akward...
2006-12-14 17:45:51 · 24 answers · asked by mamiii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it.
2006-12-14 17:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
One good way to learn is by watching softcore pornography. Harcore stuff won't help you much at this stage because it's not real, but there are some excellent educational videos available that will literally show you step by step what to do.
"Joy of Sex" is a good one, and there are many, many others. Do a Google search on "instructional sex videos" and you'll find plenty of information.
Don't be in any hurry, it's really not the big deal that media makes it out to be. Honestly, the best way to learn is to be in a healthy and loving relationship with a partner who is patient and supportive.
2006-12-15 01:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me,,its better to feel a little awkward than to do it before you are ready.You really have alot of time yet.Dont be in a hurry.Many young girls do it out of curiosity or because every1 else seems to be or because you think you are suppose to give it up for the bf but,,,its not worth it,,not yet. ;O)
2006-12-15 01:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its kinda awkward, but its part of growing up. You will know how when you find the right person, and trust me, when you find that one, they won't care that you dont know how---they will want you for you, not just your body. But if you are curious, pick a copy of Cosmo-- they always have a few booty tips in there :)
2006-12-15 01:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared, you probably arent ready anyway! And it isnt something you learn, as such. It is more one of those things that comes naturally. When the times right you will know exactly what needs to be done, until then, chill out. It"s one of lifes great learning curves!
Xx~xX
2006-12-15 01:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by ★♥ KillerBea ♥★ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Watch some pornos, that's how I learned. It's not how you make love, but it will teach you how to have sex. Plus... stop calling it "ESS EEE EXX", as continuing to do so will ensure you won't get laid anytime soon.
2006-12-15 01:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I can tell you pornos teach you things you might wanna do, once you try it and imagine doing what you saw it'll work itself out...just don't be scared,
the first time is a thrill ride!
2006-12-15 01:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by orejitas285 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like w/most everything else, you "learn" with experience..just don't be in too much of a hurry with this one. and if you are lucky, you will have someone loving and gentle to show you.
2006-12-15 01:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't feel awkward. but don't be deceived also. approach the proper people to ask when it comes to sex. your notion of sex must be in its proper perspective. you can learn it from your parents. ask them. so you may know how to react at certain aspects of your life.
2006-12-15 01:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by math 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people are nervous their first time,but just let your partner know and i am sure they will help you through that. just be sure that that is the person that you want to be with. don't let anyone pressure you into it.
2006-12-15 02:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by ruwako2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the library or bookstore and read a book
Then find a "friend" to have sex with and tell them you want to learn how to have sex
have sex
learn
practice
get better
enjoy
USE A CONDOM!
2006-12-15 01:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋