2006-12-14 17:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every1 i have dated has cheated on me..they r great relationships until that one fight n everytime it happens they end up cheatin on me im not : controling, jealous, abusive,or clingy. all my girlfriends and friends that r girls tell me i am a great boy friend..yet i always get burnt.. the girls i have dated have been very different so its not like i pick the type of girl to date.. i have 2 gf in the last 4 years they both cheated on me..the thing the girls had in common was their exscuse "i dont how it happened it just did" sob weep weep "im sorry..Can u forgive me" sob weep weep..And i the biggest sucker ever ..
2006-12-14 18:29:35 · update #1
Because you keep picking the wrong women to be with. This problem lies with in yourself and you need to do some soul searching to find out the answer. Perhaps try picking girls from a differet crowd.
2006-12-14 17:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll take the Dr. Drew approach and say that you need to get away from going after girls who have that "strange" attractiveness. Most-likely something happened in your past and you're drawn to the chaoticness (is that even a word?)
Try settling down and becoming friends with girls you think are cool, but whom you aren't instantly attracted to. Build a foundational friendship and then maybe their finer qualities will come out and you can have a healthier long-term relationship.
If not, you'll at least learn from them and have gained another friend.
2006-12-15 01:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hitting it up with the wrong people. The answer could lie in yourself.
I think that you are making yourself too vulnerable. You easily trust and believe in what other people say. You show too much weakness than strength.
People will take advantage of you and these are the kind of people who will not be loyal.
The next time around, don't compromise yourself by submitting to someone right away. Be secured, courageous and firm.
Take time to reflect. The answers are just buried within you.
Trust me.
2006-12-15 01:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by nomamalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of people who are loyal. You just haven't found the right person. But for your sake, I hope the next person you find will be loyal to you, keep looking you will find the right person one day.
2006-12-15 01:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not meant to be with someone yet apparently.
Don't worry. God has a plan for you and will bring you the right person in His time. Just have faith in Him.
2006-12-15 01:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its not human nature to be loyal. if you can show me one person who has been perfectly loyal to everyone they dated, ill show you a liar. you just gotta hope you find someone more loyal than the rest.
2006-12-15 01:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by DR Zuess god of the misinformed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still havent met "the right one"
2006-12-15 01:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by allanbabes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loyalty is so rare in todays world.. and it is usually found in more serious ppl.. yeah so try harder!
2006-12-15 01:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by a1jacky1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can find someone loyal if u r so
2006-12-15 01:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not looking in the right places.
or, maybe you shouldn't look so hard, and let her come to you.
2006-12-15 01:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Some Girl from College 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋