2006-12-14 17:41:04 · 8 answers · asked by Eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you talk to him think about him being off limits and that he is just a friend. Talk to him like he was already taken! That always helps me...then you become more calm and relaxed when you talk to him! And also confidence goes a long way! Just look in the mirror and pick out all the features that you like about yourself and boost up your confidence before you talk to him. Just keep telling yourself...I am so SEXY today! You would be surprised how appealing you become to the opposite sex!!!!
2006-12-14 17:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by flightchix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and will always be the girl who didn't have a lot of boyfriends, but rather lots of boys as friends. Do u get what I am saying? Anyways, no matter if the guy was just a friend or a true boyfriend, he always told me that he loved my smile and outgoing personality. I was also told once that i was nice to random people, and that caught a guys' attention... so I hope that little bit helps you out. Also, I always take a deep breath and mentally recite what I am going to say to the guy before I approach him (i also eat a mint so make sure i dont have bad breath... :) ) good luck!
2006-12-14 17:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to talk to a guy you like for the first time without blushing. chapter one. get some confidence. yes, that is easier said than done. you can start by loving yourself. accepting you for who you are, what you look like... your personality... you're the only you you've got. so... stick with what you know.
secondly... what gets a guy's attention... well... what do you think are your better features? enhance those. if it's your eyes or your hair or your body. go for it. but try not to give off the wrong impression... confidence is one thing but sometimes guys like the aloof embarrassed girl.
good luck!
2006-12-14 17:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you somewhat like the guy, attempt to get even in the route of him before you attempt this, because in case you get close, the prospect is he will finally end up liking you besides! do not panic, stay calm, keep in concepts that's your pal your speaking about! If all else fails, you are able to write it in a letter, even with the reality that there is continually the hardship he received't get round to studying it!!! do no longer attempt to sense out your pal's emotions by making jokes about relationship one yet another. this can make the concept of relationship a comic book tale which isn't what you want. one good way of actually 'feeling out' his emotions is to be certain how he responds to diffused actual indicators of love. to illustrate, when you're status next to him, contact him on his decrease lower back to get his interest and ask him a question. If all doesn't go in accordance to plot, do not panic, do not get tearful on him, and do not push him away; keep chatting with him, attempt to allow him comprehend that your friendship is the biggest element, and if he doesn't like you as more effective than a pal, attempt to chortle it off, if he do, you've 2 situations: you are able to both tell him you want him too, and note the position it is going (in case you fancy them) OR in case you do not, reassure him that you nevertheless love him (as a pal) as a lot as you ever did, and do not let it replace your friendship!
2016-11-26 20:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. if ur nervous about doing it in person u can always start by talking to him on myspace or facebook or aim. and then u'll be able to be comfortable talking to him so u won't blush when u talk to him in person!
2006-12-14 17:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by drexel310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him lightly but let him make the first move, its always better for guys to make the move , then you know they are interested and take care.
2006-12-14 17:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by colwg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer the girl to be herself .. instead of acting like something she's not. You know what i mean . . . good luck.
2006-12-14 17:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can\'t control ur emotion .. and you can act interestead in them .. thet\'ll open up
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2006-12-14 17:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋