At what age is a guy really mature to have a serious relationship? Anyone?? I really do think it's base upon the person itself. Girls or boys are more shy? Why? Why do boys play fight with girls? Anyone can chat with me about it? Have lots of question to ask..
2006-12-14 18:42:19 · 15 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its because that everyone is shy to tell out their feelings
2006-12-14 19:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would venture to say like after about age 25. Most of us need time to sow our wild oats and find our true idenity and place in the real world.
You ever been around that person that just makes you flush all over? Not too many females do it to me, but once in a while, man, its almost overwhelming when it happens.
Love is the same way. Its deep. Its more than a sex act. Thats the bonding of the souls. Its very special, and don't ruin it just being in a relationship with someone, then jumping under the sheets. Love is much more than that.
I need to go to work now, so email me if you like, send all the questions you want, I'll give you my opinion and advice. I'm old enough and well seasoned on this subject.
2006-12-15 02:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is not as hard as staying in love You are right a lot depends on the person themselves not whether they are male or female-their maturity and their being shy as well. Boys chase girls when they are young and sometimes hit them because they like them. A man seems to start to mature in his early twentys. Then when they get to be about 40 they go through a stage where sometimes some of them think they need to cheat as if it is o.k. I realize that you are probably very young but i will tell you the truth as i see it. Some men are grown up in their teens and some never grow up! It is the same with females about acting grown up.
2006-12-15 02:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what age a guy really gets matured. It really depends on that person, I think. I don't think there's an answer for which is more shy, it also depends on girl and boy. Boys likes to play fights with girls but girls also likes to do so.
2006-12-15 02:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To truly fall in love is an act of selfless courage...You are also taking a chance...it's a statement about the future about your vision of a future with that special someone. Love can be Heroic, inspiring and bring out the very best you have inside you. Feeling all those thoughts having them cascade through your mind is not for the squeamish. That's why most would rather play at carnality (love of sex) which quickly grows tiresome if that's the only 'thing' in play
2006-12-15 03:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is easy...getting what you want afterwards is the tricky part...Guys are able to have their heart broken at about 14 and up mostly and their first love is always very serious and would last forever if it could...they usually get their heart broken by fickle teenage girls and start to be more defencive from that point on. Play fighting with girls is a way to initiate physical contact without being creepy - it is a sure sign they want to touch you some more...lol Good luck
2006-12-15 02:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love takes an instance but staying inlove is normally the biggest problem for me.
When you find it very hard to fall in love, you should imagine the perfect man for you, as in the whole package.When yous ee such a guy you will instantly fall in love.It might seem hard to do it at first but you persistent the image until it seems true and vivid to you
2006-12-15 02:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as maturity it depends on the person. upbringing and so on. as far as which is more shy, guys by far. the reason is because guys get rejected ten times as much as girls do. and lets face it rejection hurts. as far as why we play fight. its because we are expected to initiate physical contact in almost every instance. so... we have to have an inlet such as tickling, play slapping, etc... of course these are getting old and obvious so we are expected to come up with more and more creative ways to initiate contact, which applies even more pressure to the guy, which makes him even more shy. its a never ending cycle and girls never even see whats happening. that is y makin the first move on guys is never a bad thing.
2006-12-15 02:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by DR Zuess god of the misinformed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is d true likeness that come directly from heart,in love you will find peace, happiness and enduring;live happily together,live like it's heaven on earth,love like you'll never get hurt and life is beautiful when you are in love. so be with a mature guy 30 to 35yrs will be serious in relationship that will lead to marriage.so with all this process searching for the rigth person to share love with,you have to be patient and carefully.that's why it's difficult to fall in love .thanks
2006-12-15 04:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) It's not hard if you find the right person.
2) Depends on the guy
3) depends on the girl or guy
2006-12-15 02:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by MrBret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not hard to fall in love but it's just that you don't know how it feels. Search for that feeling that makes you want to fly.
2006-12-15 02:51:23 · answer #11 · answered by Rodney k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋