You see, i have a girlfriend who has problems with hr mom.. my gf feels that her mom doesn't love her.. she cites to me some instances where she feels that way. For example.. her mom always questions her if she if using drugs or drink or have sex and a lot of bad things. Well, my gf has beend with her mother just 3 years ago.. her mom isn't around during her elementary years.. Can you give me some things i can say to her to make her know wat to do or just make her feel better...
i hope u understand.. ty very much.. pls reply asap
2006-12-14 18:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Nothin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I, for one think that her mom.... so does not hate her!!! Her mom is well.... a mom!! And she's probably just looking out for her daughter...
2006-12-14 19:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by â?¡Jei-Jeiâ?¡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gf has only one mother. She will have only one mother the rest of her life. Nothing can change that. So the questions is what kind of relationship does she want with mom? Ask mom. Tell mom how she feels and ask mom what she wants to do about it. Most relationships break down over lack of communication. So, communicate with mom. Remember, moms have problems too. They get sad, make mistakes, have bad days. Gf and mom need to work with each other to make the relationship work. It's worth it.
2006-12-15 03:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your gf is overreacting...
Parents ask questions.
That's what theyre good at...
And if they don't know each other that well then the relationship might be a little awkward and prone to missunderstandings...
2006-12-15 02:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by aloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ermz.. A mom always want to protect her child.. She love you very much. That's why she questions you.. Tell her that!
2006-12-15 02:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by princessofriendship_7893 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously...........If her mother didn't love her she would not be concerned if she is doing drugs, drinking or having sex.
Her mother asks these questions because she does love her.
2006-12-15 02:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to her that her mom is actually wants her to be safe and sound....and love her a lot....well, some moms are annoying of course..but within their heart they r good and just wanna their daughters to be safe
2006-12-15 02:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by mysterious girl this year!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has major issues with her mother and needs to seek professional help if she wants to develope somewhat of a healthy relationship with her mother.
2006-12-15 03:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by bella212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just tell that she needs time to bond with her mother,they need to gain trust.
2006-12-15 02:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by chaosphere187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just understand and be supportive to your gf, if she tells you stories just listen to her, maybe that could feel her much better.
2006-12-15 03:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by erichaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her lots of love so that she is busy with you and get married.
2006-12-15 02:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by RAJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋