Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

I want to divorce my husband. I think he is an asshole. He is always mentally and sometimes physically abusive to me. I told him to get out,but he won't leave. Then I told him I am moving out of state;he told me I would not see my children 6 months out of the year.I think I take better care of the kids than he does,anyway. His mother really doesn't like me anyway so she helps him anyway she can. I do not want him in my life anymore,but I know his mother will influence him to get joint custody because she is a big fat ***** from hell. So much has happened to us;I really don't want go to counseling. I have tried with him. I want my children to stay with me.Because the longer I live with him,I feel like a walking contradiction. What should I do?

2006-12-14 16:35:09 · 18 answers · asked by Skl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i broke up w/him 1 week ago and then he asked me again. I like him but what if he does the same to me. He hanged out with this little slute more then he spend time w/me and the bright side is that he was all sweet never forgot my b-day did what ever to get me a present on every holiday.

2006-12-14 16:33:48 · 22 answers · asked by xxponyxxdie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm probably being weird and stoic, but a part of me feels like I would be cheating the girl. Plus it makes for awkward first-date conversation when I have to drop the line, "Oh yeah, something you should know: I have cancer."

I'm a 20-something male with Hodgkin's Disease, a form of lymphoma.

2006-12-14 16:33:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 16:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

another woman came up to him (just a barfly acquaintance) and lifted her blouse and showed him what was underneath, would you expect him to handle the situation and if so, how? Or would you be inclined to want to handle it yourself and if so, how would you handle it? I have been trying to talk to these 2 impossible people who are in a big disagreement as to how each handled this situation. I was just looking for some good feedback that I might be able to interject into a conversation when they start griping again. I would really like for the 2 of them to just forget about it and move on. It is becoming an obsession.

2006-12-14 16:32:56 · 2 answers · asked by cola 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 16:32:34 · 2 answers · asked by _nakahhidit_ 2 in Family

Or should you just wait until more money is saved? Is that lots for a wedding ring?

2006-12-14 16:31:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I only have 35.00 He's 43.......HELP
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2006-12-14 16:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by Dino 3 in Singles & Dating

well to start i have a sister who is a single parent and has two kids. well her 5 yr old has been causing her problems for almost 5 yrs. she has not given him any home training what so ever. he is beyond the word bad. he is something serious. my entire family knows this. well the other day she called me and asked me if i would discipline him for her cause he doesnt listen at all to her. well he is my nephew, so i said ok. well i gave him a spanking the way we did when i was growing up. so he went to school and the teacher seen the marks and now they have put me on record for child abuse. i didnt get charged but im on record. i have no peace right now. i wasnt trying to abuse him and everyone knows it. even those people at child protective services know it. they said she can bring him around me but cant leave him alone with me. i feel like a criminal, even though i know i shouldnt. i asked god to help with my peace. how can i get pass this. plz no smart remarks.

2006-12-14 16:29:07 · 19 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi..I am a capricorn sun..pisces moon guy and dating a sagi sun pisces moon girl..will marriage work?
We love talking to each other and have an emotional connection..but we do have concerns about our different approach to life in general...i'm serious, practical and somewhat pessimistic..she is almost the opposite. she does not like to be constrained and i need to know that she is there for me..i like security..
we're both confused and trying to figure out if this will work in marriage. any thoughts will be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-14 16:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by gametime 1 in Weddings

So here's a question... About two years ago, I had a three-month casual relationship with a friend of mine from childhood. We were both 20 years old at the time, and our fling was wonderful while it lasted. However, at the same time, I met the guy who would soon become my current boyfriend, and I left childhood friend behind. Flash forward two years -- things in my current relationship are OK, but I've found myself fantasizing more and more about the childhood friend. I've realized that this is probably because I loved the fresh thrill of my relationship with childhood friend, whereas the passion level of my current relationship is low.

The childhood friend, meanwhile, has been dating another girl now for about a year, and he lives about 2-3 hours away from me in a different city. I will be in that city for a few business trips in the coming months and am so tempted to call him to get together for drinks, etc. Maybe secretly I'm hoping we'll get back together. Is this a wise move?

2006-12-14 16:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by DoubleMint 2 in Singles & Dating

Explain your answer.

2006-12-14 16:27:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this guy & im pretty sure he likes me. I really want to tell him that I l ike him (well cause i do). We both liked each other like all last year and we knew we liked each other. I go to a small private school so we see each other in every class. During class we look at each other. I sit next to him in a class I could tell him then. I know he won't care and he might like be back and we are friends. But I just don't know when or how.

2006-12-14 16:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by Me 3 in Friends

Ok. I've been dating a woman for 9 months and she has never slept over at my house. What does this mean? Should I worry about it? My house is very nice and there is no reason that I can see why she wouldn't. She says she is just set in her ways. I just don't get it. I sleep at hers all the time. She knows it bothers me but she still won't. I think its just weird.

2006-12-14 16:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by t_elizabeth 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and over the summer (when i was 12) I went my friends and his parents and we got really dirty one day and my friends mom had us get naked at the camp site and she gave us each a bath in a stupid wash tub on a picknet bench. It was stupid. I told my parents and they didn't do anything. Is that right?

2006-12-14 16:24:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there are some really pretty girls (like natural beauty pretty not buckets of makeup pretty) at my school that are just heart stoppers... but they have a lacking of social skills or expresssiveness and oh my gosh.... no boyfriends!

2006-12-14 16:24:46 · 14 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm not so much into reading.. watching would be better but i live far from home.. in the place where i stay.. television is not much in use coz they have schedules. i can't also go out coz there's nothing much to see. it's just a small town..

now.. please help me.... i htink i'm going to die in boredom this coming sunday coz i won't be able to go home...

2006-12-14 16:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by _nakahhidit_ 2 in Family

drawbacks:
loud,immature,skinny side

2006-12-14 16:22:30 · 16 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

How about if your girlfriend/boyfriend, spouse (husband/wife) has a fake teeth (not implant or bridge teeth), or maybe toothless do you still with her/him ? or do you leave/divorce with her/him ?

2006-12-14 16:21:55 · 10 answers · asked by angon_mouse 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard people say it easy to forget the first love but with all respect to these people i think their crazy. i mean it's impossble to forget the first love no matter what at least to me and it been two years .
do you think it's possible to forget the first love ?

2006-12-14 16:21:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom wants me to stop carrying them around the house and get rid of them. But I really like them, plus they keep me warm at night. I plan to keep them, but should I?

2006-12-14 16:20:17 · 27 answers · asked by dragon_girl441 2 in Family

me and my husbandhs been together for 10 months and we get in the most fights and its all b/c i cant trust him. He cheated on me 2 monthes into the marriage and acts like he done nothing wrong. Yes i admit sometimes i treat him bad b/c of the hurt but what else can i do we are trying to give the marriage another try but everytime he leaves the house or his phone rings my mind wonders he dosent want me to ask hime eany questions so it makes it harder for me..... HELP ME PLEASE

2006-12-14 16:18:48 · 20 answers · asked by christina h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 16:18:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I cannot find anything to do, their nothing on TV and were bored of playing video games and we can't go out right now. Do you have any suggestions on what we can do.

2006-12-14 16:18:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, I started talking to this girl about a month and a half ago that I met through a mutual friend back at home. We're both in school but I'm out of state. I think we've really hit it off and everything seems to be going well, but my question is: is it normal to nearly stop eating at all because of anticipation of getting back to someone? I've had some relationships before but they never really worked out and this has never happened. It's also my first year away from home but that hasn't been an issue with it. I'm going back home Monday I'm a little bit worried but I don't think I'm too badly off yet but thinking about food just makes me feel sick.

2006-12-14 16:16:50 · 9 answers · asked by jt3587 1 in Singles & Dating

im gettin my wisdom teeth taken out 2morrow.. n my bf refuses 2 come over 2 visit me for the weekend.. he says he dont wanna cuz hes scared of my parents.. do i have the right 2 b pissed off??

2006-12-14 16:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by latinababe0105@sbcglobal.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive never dated before, and ive had guys interested in me but im too nervous to date them. How can I ease my feelings and start dating one day? I think some psychology is realted to this.

2006-12-14 16:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by . 5 in Singles & Dating

I used to be liked by every guy around and when i moved out of town and came back non of the guys like me anymore is it bc ive changed (lost virginity...had a miscarriage) What can i do to get attention without looking like im a slut or desperate

2006-12-14 16:14:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 16:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by Nick A 3 in Singles & Dating

We still talk as friends and he keeps reminding me of the bad way I dumped him.

2006-12-14 16:12:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships