Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

If I break a law of the land and am caught then I have to accept the consequences, therefore if my wife breaks the laws of my household, she has to accept the consequences, correct? I have a rule that says women are not allowed to watch PG-13 or higher movies without a male relative present, yet when i came home, I found out my wife was watching "Pretty Woman" with her sister. First off, she didn't have my permission to watch this slutty trash and secondly no male relative was present. I told her she grounded and could not see her sister for a week. Her sister got all upset and told her not to listen to me but after a few minutes I finally kicked her out of the house. They both knew better and they both knew my rules. Her sister told her mother and now her mom calls up and blasts me out like I have no right to do that to her daughter, yada yada yada....Am I being ridiculous here? Am I really being unfair?

2006-12-14 15:40:13 · 37 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the advantages of polygamy??

what are the diadvantages of polygamy??

any other opinion regarding polyagamy??

2006-12-14 15:38:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 15:37:40 · 20 answers · asked by Kenny P 1 in Singles & Dating

An example of this is me and my ex. We've dated twice before and both times i lost interest. But he's perfect for me. We have everything in common and he treats me like an angel. He'd do anything for me and he's the sweetest guy I've ever met. Plus, he's attractive. And we've kinda been seeing each other again lately and i feel i may lose interest again....but i can't figure out why. And this happens with all guys..Can someone please help me?

2006-12-14 15:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by krystal_lynn_87 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 15:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by DAMER 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my cousin has been inlove with me for 15 years and i'ver neverliked him because well im not interested in him PLUS HES MY COUSIN
so the other day he told me he prays and will pray that i feel the same way about someone else one day

i really belive if someones crazy enough to pray and do voodoo **** that it can happenn

i wanna KILL him.. he's trying to ruin my life?

2006-12-14 15:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by babyyylisaaa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She always comes over only when my wife is gone and she brings cookies and brownies and cakes. She's always dressed hot. What does she want? Why always when my wife is gone? She always tries to stay and gab gab gab....

Should I be thinking she has other motives?

2006-12-14 15:36:35 · 23 answers · asked by swingfromhips 2 in Marriage & Divorce

any date ideas (not first) that would be considered "cute"

2006-12-14 15:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which would you think is better? Being presented with the traditional light blue gift box and white ribbon? Or the ring box open and the ring right before your eyes?

It's a tough judgment call. I can't decide. I know either way will be great, but I just wanted a woman's opinion.

2006-12-14 15:35:48 · 21 answers · asked by Jumbonaut 3 in Weddings

I know i shouldn't be in the relationship that i am in. but i would be terrified of a new relatioship. IF anyone has ever seen that movie about the walmart baby and the friend in the movie allways finds these jerks to date and the last one molested her children, i would be terrified of dating someone new because of that.
And how many men out there really want to be with someone who already has children?
I''d love to have someone in my life that would love to do things, but i dont know if i will ever find someone because of being a mother already.

2006-12-14 15:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by ~Mom2A&G~+1 2 in Singles & Dating

if u do pls email my on southrob700@hotmail.com

2006-12-14 15:35:38 · 4 answers · asked by soad_rules700 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we're recently married but have not enough leave to go on our honeymoon till april next year. I've got an injury and can't climb steps & we prefer something moderately lazy with great food.

I was thinking Japan, New Zeland or Europe? He mentioned rain forest spa (but he refuses to go to the local spa with me!) he also mentioned that we may take 2 short breaks instead of 1 long 1 (but i know he'll end up just taking 1 short 1!!)

can anyone suggest anything?

2006-12-14 15:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by AnT 2 in Weddings

so me and my fiance broke up after 2 1/2 yrs mostly from me doing stupid things(not cheating)
i verbal abuse..and not listening didnt help that we didnt get to see much of eachother. weve been apart for about 2 weeks. we still love eachother deeply, shes juz scared a little of me but our future mostly. weve never cheated and r eachothers first loves. we decided we juz break up and find what we wanted in a girl/guy like i said were gonna meet up next weekend. ive been so heart-broking not eating/sleeping/writing songs and poetry thats she liking but i dont know how to come off when i meet her? should i come off juz as friends? and show her ive changed? or throw my book of poetry, and tell her how much i love her..etc.. or juz come as a friend, give her space to think about us and juz show ive changed for the better. for us?

2006-12-14 15:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by sipple30121 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am the odd ball out and my mother only comes around when it suits her schedule, or when she needs something. I'm thinking of telling her to kick rocks. I know I may just be speaking from anger so I want to hear from those who have severed ties to their moms and why. Do you miss her? How long does it take to adjust?

2006-12-14 15:34:50 · 12 answers · asked by blazenphoenix 4 in Family

you have always had low self esteem and every man in your life has emotionally abused you starting with your father? I really seriously want to break this life long pattern but dont know where to start. I know deep down I am worth more but the thoughts in my mind keep telling that I am worthless. Is it possible to ever gain a higher self esteem? Serious answers only please. I dont need to be belittled anymore.

2006-12-14 15:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 2 years with a daughter almost 3, and an 8 mo son. Recently the children were in bed early and we got frisky downstairs (not the norm). Hubby wanted to do something different, kinda freaky (not too bad, but won't go into details). He started getting shy and appeared ashamed for even mentioning it! I was all for something new! Is this behavior normal for a husband, maybe who has gotten into a rut? Or is it just MY hubby trying to hold onto my "innocence"?

2006-12-14 15:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine Swirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

well he's hot, real nice, and sweet, + we get along okay he's not sure about goin w/ me because he's a bit older so what are some things that would make him understand that we can workout?

2006-12-14 15:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by coco_chic 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you liked your siblings bestfriend?
i've liked him since i was 15 and hes 6 years older than me
i dont konw if he would like me... i dont want to tell him because it might ruin their friendship? what should i do?!?!!

2006-12-14 15:33:46 · 5 answers · asked by babyyylisaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

1 is "I hate her" 10 We get along great!

2006-12-14 15:30:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok.. my best friend and I attend the same college. Well in our class, she insists on never studying and always wants to copy me. I work extremely hard for the grades I get and almost feel cheated by someone who is taking advantage of me. On our final today, which she never even read the book, she expected to be able to copy of my test. I have warned her that she needs to study, but she waited until the day of the test. Of course she did not even get through half of the material she needed to. Anyways, when It came time for the test, i blocked my answers. She is extremely mad.She might fail. But i believe as a good friend that i am just teaching her a very valuable life lesson. Any advice?

2006-12-14 15:30:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating a guy for about six months now. About mid-way through our relationship, we just stopped having sex. I spend the night a lot and he never seems to want to do it. I've brought it to his attention several times, but he never comes up with an answer to satisfy me. Do you think that he's cheating or lost interest or what?

2006-12-14 15:30:02 · 19 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend I haven't seen in about 6 months. He was cool and funny. And STRAIGHT. Now, he tries to be all emo and stuff. He also thinks he's bisexual. So, is it like all emo people HAVE to be bi, or WHAT?!?!

2006-12-14 15:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by kb 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl i wish to date. i have no chance in hell with her (or even if i do i have deemed it that way). i am good friends with her, and cannot stop thinking about her. why must my wandering mind punish me every 6 seconds? feel free to try to explain this to me. i already know evilution and all that jazz plays a good role in it, but it frankly sucks. gurls are the cause of guys problems, i can assume guys are the cause of girls problems.

2006-12-14 15:29:39 · 1 answers · asked by мΛІ€ҢΛр™ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am asking this because I have a past love where things didnt work out, sometimes i truly feel wrong for this and there are times that I feel its normal. I just need advice on this feeling. Serious answers only please.

2006-12-14 15:29:29 · 19 answers · asked by Ms. Q 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 15:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandparetns split up about 4 years ago. (grandpa having an affair at 72) My grandmother now lives with us but still despises him. My 21st is coming up and am having a big party at my house and want them there. I know if i invite grandpa he will com but my granny will crack it and not come. What should i do?

2006-12-14 15:28:39 · 10 answers · asked by ce_ben1 5 in Family

i got an email from michi. just sayin' thanks for your help. now i know there is someone who cares about me. the Lord has indeed blessed me with a new friendship. Merry Christmas. michi, do me a favor and give me your email address. mine is squidgetpj@yahoo.com.

2006-12-14 15:28:37 · 1 answers · asked by squidgetpj 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She doesn't know how to be happy. I want to make her happy, and I want her to be happy no matter if it's with another guy. I respect her and treat her well. She told me she felt something for me but, needless to say, it didn't quite work out the way I planned. So this is what I ask for. How do I win her over? I care about her deeply. We have a very strong friendship that can't be broken, no matter what. Answers here would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-14 15:27:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The only hitch is that she is in a relationship with an abusive boyfriend. how can i get her to think hey things could be better with me?

2006-12-14 15:26:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I trust on my best friend and so do he, we talk about everything..but he recently talks about "What will you do if I have a car accident and I don't survive?"....that makes me really sad and makes me cry...I promised him that eventhough he dies on the other side of the world, or on the depest sea, i'll be there! no matter what..and he promised me the same..but I fell worried because he doesn't stop talking about it..and it makes me really sad...and makes me think that he will die soon...WHAT DO U THINK?!

2006-12-14 15:25:56 · 8 answers · asked by Re 4 in Friends