The only hitch is that she is in a relationship with an abusive boyfriend. how can i get her to think hey things could be better with me?
2006-12-14 15:26:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her. Put yourself out there. She may be in this relationship because she doesnt think she could get anyone better
2006-12-14 15:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a fight with the abusive boyfriend and then beat the **** out of him in front of her, if you're up to it. If he's much bigger than you are, use something(tire iron, crow bar, beer bottle and such handy items). Other than that, well you could try talking to her ABOUT IT when this guy is not around and see how things go.
nothing ventured, nothing gained, you know what I mean. Luck.
2006-12-14 23:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs to get out of that relationship and heal on her own first. You wouldn't want her to be with you just because you're saving her; you want her to be with you because she loves you.
2006-12-14 23:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Professor Maddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, tough one...she seems to enjoy the attention she gets even though its abusive...maybe u should just be you and do things she notices, but not only for her....let her tell you why and what she wants...be patient,it works
2006-12-14 23:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her...as far as her leaving him, some girls stay with guys like that because they feel like they can change them. Just hope she wakes up one day and sees him for who he really is...then maybe she will see you for who you really are_
2006-12-14 23:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋