I've been dating a guy for about six months now. About mid-way through our relationship, we just stopped having sex. I spend the night a lot and he never seems to want to do it. I've brought it to his attention several times, but he never comes up with an answer to satisfy me. Do you think that he's cheating or lost interest or what?
2006-12-14 15:30:02 · 19 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most girls think that when a man stop having sex he is cheating, but there could be a lot of other reasons. He could be tired of the way that you are making love to him. Men lost their interest easily, especially when having sex is lacking in variety. I do not think that he is cheating, but you need to keep him interested sexually. Make him want you otherwise he will start to cheat. In other words, be creative when you are having sex, make him call your name a thousand times and tell you how sweet you are.
2006-12-14 16:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by DFlavor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard sometimes when people stop having sex in dating relationships that sometimes it has nothing to do with cheating or not finding the sex enjoyable. It's hard to say. Some people feel guilty about having sex before marriage or having sex and not knowing each other very well or not really dating for the right reasons. Just communicate with him. Find out why the sex has stopped and go from there. Good luck in the relationship!
2006-12-14 15:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by strackdennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may mean hes feeling bad about something... maybe cheating. You need to talk to him more. Even though sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship before your married, if you were a sexual couple before this, it is odd for it to just stop. However, his sex drive may just have declined a lot. Has he started taking any medication or doing drugs? Could be a million things. Good luck!
2006-12-14 15:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have identified the possible reasons..cheating or he has lost interest. Now it could be medical (impotence). He could no longer find you attractive. He could no longer think he is attractive. He could have a low sex drive. Was it passionate and frequent sex in the beginning? He could be gay. Have you gained weight? All of these and more could be going on. The important thing is that NOT having sex is a probelm in a relatinship and if he does not want to address it..you need to get out or get help.
2006-12-14 15:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dr_Adventure 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may actually just be very overwhelmed in other areas of his life, but six months is still early on in a relationship to be disinterested in sex. Talk to him about it, explain that you are not being satisfied and that you are confused as to why he is not interested. I think a healthy sex life refelects a healthy relationship, you should definatly talk to him and figure this out. Good Luck!
2006-12-14 15:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe he has other issues.
Why does he have to be accused of cheating just because he's not having sex with you. Maybe it is you.
If you feel he has lost interest, try to bring that interest back. Why don't you just try initiating sex rather than asking for it.
2006-12-14 16:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who suddenly turns his back on the offer of free sex is likely getting it elsewhere.
2006-12-14 15:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the holidays and stress can do it- are there any other cheating/loss of interest signs??gone a lot, moody,unavailable?If so -you may want to look into it!!
2006-12-14 15:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is gay.I am not trying to be funny,but i hear it happens like that sometimes....bam.Also let me ask you,when you do have sex is it good for you.If he feels like he doesn't satisfy you it can cause him to not want to do it.
2006-12-14 15:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by The Wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is some thing defiantly wrong, maybe you guys should sit down and talk about the near future, as it sure seems to be going no ware fast.
2006-12-14 15:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋