me and my fiance are seperated but meeting to hang out next week. how do i show her i care and want to be with

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so me and my fiance broke up after 2 1/2 yrs mostly from me doing stupid things(not cheating)
i verbal abuse..and not listening didnt help that we didnt get to see much of eachother. weve been apart for about 2 weeks. we still love eachother deeply, shes juz scared a little of me but our future mostly. weve never cheated and r eachothers first loves. we decided we juz break up and find what we wanted in a girl/guy like i said were gonna meet up next weekend. ive been so heart-broking not eating/sleeping/writing songs and poetry thats she liking but i dont know how to come off when i meet her? should i come off juz as friends? and show her ive changed? or throw my book of poetry, and tell her how much i love her..etc.. or juz come as a friend, give her space to think about us and juz show ive changed for the better. for us?

so me and my fiance broke up after 2 1/2 yrs mostly from me doing stupid things(not cheating)
i verbal abuse..and not listening didnt help that we didnt get to see much of eachother. weve been apart for about 2 weeks. we still love eachother deeply, shes juz scared a little of me but our future mostly. weve never cheated and r eachothers first loves. we decided we juz break up and find what we wanted in a girl/guy like i said were gonna meet up next weekend. ive been so heart-broking not eating/sleeping/writing songs and poetry thats she liking but i dont know how to come off when i meet her? should i come off juz as friends? and show her ive changed? or throw my book of poetry, and tell her how much i love her..etc.. or juz come as a friend, give her space to think about us and juz show ive changed for the better. for us?

edit: im 20 shes 19 ways of changed anger management also getting into the army for my future and college, also ive come to realized what all i did wrong

lawman plz... this isnt about sex at all

Answer 1

go with the flow and be honest. if she wants to meet you thats a start.

Answer 2

In two weeks of separation, have you done enough introspection to get some solutions to the problems that led to the break up? If yes, you have to tell her what you propose to do to get out of your past bad behavior. What concrete steps she expect you to take, are also useful to know, but I doubt if these can be discussed in detail at the first meeting. It should be a friendly one to break the ice that has enveloped your relations. Show her that you are sincere to improve, give her time to rethink and judge you by your proposed actions. Follow up your plans and show that you have really improved. Only then can you convince her to resume the past relationship in a relaxed manner.

Answer 3

You were doing stupid things, and it caused a break-up after 2 and a half years, . . . . . . . . . . . . and what has changed in two weeks????
How have you "changed for the better for us? in just two weeks?
Who do you think you're kidding, mate?
You have to do some serious self-analysis. Maybe that's what you were doing spending all that time writing poetry, but I doubt it.

See an objective counselor, or kiss this one goodbye!

Answer 4

my god, give it up.

you are much too young to get married

move on

or just hang out with her because you want sex, but really

any marriage at this age under the circumstances that you state is doomed.