I know i shouldn't be in the relationship that i am in. but i would be terrified of a new relatioship. IF anyone has ever seen that movie about the walmart baby and the friend in the movie allways finds these jerks to date and the last one molested her children, i would be terrified of dating someone new because of that.
And how many men out there really want to be with someone who already has children?
I''d love to have someone in my life that would love to do things, but i dont know if i will ever find someone because of being a mother already.
2006-12-14 15:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by ~Mom2A&G~+1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the man ... some guys prefer to date women without children while others are open and accepting of it ... some men are dads too and find it easier to date other parents so you can't generalize! If you know you shouldn't be in the relationship you are in, then why waste time? Wouldn't it be better to be content on your own than miserable with someone else? Go out and find the relationship that you want and deserve! Btw, being on your own is not as scary as you may think - it can actually be a good thing! Also, when you are ready to find that one, take it slowly, get to know them well and keep it separate from your kids until you know that the relationship has potential to be a lasting one. This will help protect your kids and screen out some of the weirdos. Yes, they are out there but there are a lot of good ones too! For as many movies that you've seen that are scary, I'm sure there are just as many that have those happy ever after endings. Good luck with it. Life is short, enjoy it!
2006-12-14 15:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good men out there, but they are tough to find. Still, it isn't good for your kids to see you in a poor relationship either. Get out of the relationship you're in, but do not go diving into a new one. Be a mom and raise your children for a while without all the chaos of another relationship. There's no rush... and if you do rush, you'll probably make another mistake.
2006-12-14 23:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what kind of guy you meet. i would have no problem dating a woman with a child. if you are truly in love with that person and mature enough and ready for a kid, as the bond between the couple grows, you will grow to love that persons child as your own. there is someone out there for everybody. when god brings that person into your life it will blow you away how great he will be with you and your child. good luck :)
2006-12-14 23:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by buckhunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend that had a kid, we were together for a while, so theres guys out there that would, would i do it again? hell no lol,
but thats just me.
There are plenty of guys out there that would date a single mother.
2006-12-14 23:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by luckychucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.If you have boys then that might be a good thing...Because he can watch sports with him and play golf instead of being stuck in a ladie houshold.plus girls when he is gone throw a party!
2006-12-14 23:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by #1 jesus freak. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate to you. im 19 year old single mom going through a divorce. im going to see what kind of answers you get cause i would like to know.
2006-12-14 23:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really because they don't want to raise other peoples children.
It might sound kind of cruel but it is true, unless he is hella pu*** whipped!
2006-12-14 23:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by liljon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋