So here's a question... About two years ago, I had a three-month casual relationship with a friend of mine from childhood. We were both 20 years old at the time, and our fling was wonderful while it lasted. However, at the same time, I met the guy who would soon become my current boyfriend, and I left childhood friend behind. Flash forward two years -- things in my current relationship are OK, but I've found myself fantasizing more and more about the childhood friend. I've realized that this is probably because I loved the fresh thrill of my relationship with childhood friend, whereas the passion level of my current relationship is low.
The childhood friend, meanwhile, has been dating another girl now for about a year, and he lives about 2-3 hours away from me in a different city. I will be in that city for a few business trips in the coming months and am so tempted to call him to get together for drinks, etc. Maybe secretly I'm hoping we'll get back together. Is this a wise move?
2006-12-14 16:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by DoubleMint 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has a girlfriend now!! go and bother someone else you psycho...
2006-12-14 16:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by ewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why you're worried about it if you have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. wait until both of you are available. and don't push anything, if you are meant to be together it will all work out.
2006-12-14 16:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY NORMAL TO FEEL HOW YOU DO, HE WAS A CHILDHOOD FRIEND.BUT BOTH OF YOU HAVE OTHER
PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE, AND IT WOULD NOT BE FAIR
TO THEM TO COME BACK IN HIS LIFE. APPRECIATE WHAT
YOU HAD WITH HIM BUT YOU NEED TO CONTRACT ON
WHAT YOU HAVE.
2006-12-14 16:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋