A guy I liked and work with called me while he was jerking off. I wasn't really sure what to do because he has a girlfriend so I tried to just be cool about it. He later told me it didn't mean anything and that there would never be anything between us. I am good friend's with a friend (lets call her jane) of his and his girlfriend's though and now he feels weird to be around me and her. I feel this is his fault and refuse to quit being friends with Jane. He makes comments to Jane about why is she still my friend and things of this nature and tells her he does not want me to come when they go out or she has a get together (she wants me to). I am angry about this and have told him so. He thinks I am being unreasonable and says he is not trying to make her choose. I say he is. Who is right?
2006-12-14 17:22:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jane also works with us so she is trying to stay polite to him. She also wants to stay friends with me and his girlfriend.
2006-12-14 17:33:59 · update #1
I think you need to tell "Jane" the truth about his call because he is the one who is now making you look like the idiot...Tell her and let her decide for herself.
2006-12-14 17:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually i would tell his girlfriend what he did and I would ask her to come over. And I would then call him up and say you know the night you called me and did what you did it really turned me on but I was afraid to say anything because I wasn't use to that kind of thing but to be honest I did like it and would like for you to do it again and I will do it to. And make sure his girlfriend hears everything because she needs to know what kind of a person he really is then if she stays with him then thats that. I guess it depends on how tight your friendship is with her. I bet this isn't the first time he has ever done this. They like to shock you that turns them on. He is a sick person and it only gets worse until someday a young girl will answer a phone and he will do it to her. I had this happen to me when I was about 12 and I have never forgotten it. And for all you men out there that thinks it is cute or funny wait until it happens to your little girl or your wife. This is very much against the law and very degrading to young women and little girls. I would set him up in a heart beat even record it or have an officer hear it. This is no laughing matter men like this only get worse. and when it stops being fun anymore they turn to worse things. I don't know how old you are, but if you are still living at home I would tell your dad maybe he would like to jerk off for him so your dad to see how funny it is.
2006-12-14 17:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by sharon w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should have told Jane her man oh excuse me her boyfriend called you and got his nuts off on the phone with you. But at the same time when you realized what was happening you should have hung up the phone but if was a fifth we all would be drunk so you still have to face the music you have to tell her she might be pisst at you then again she might be pist at him it depends on her but me myself I would tell her regardless if she gets mad at me or him. He disrespected you! He called your house so what the question? YES YOU ARE RIGHT ! Let's be totally right though since he wants to be an *** about it!
2006-12-14 17:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by sun4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is trying to manipulate you and all those around him, if he continues tell him that you will tell Jane all about his phone call and the reason for his weird behavior
2006-12-14 17:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her what he did. I lost my high school best friend because her husband sat on top of me and masturbated...he then lied to her about it...she believed him, and she and I didn't speak for 5 years. It wasn't until she caught him cheating on her years later that she believed me.
2006-12-14 17:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is out of order ,you are within your rights to tell him to get a life or you will tell his girlfriend
2006-12-14 17:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-one is right and he is a jerk. You don;t need this drama, let them both go.
2006-12-14 17:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell his gf that he called you abd told you he was spanking it. you didnt do anything wrong. (by the way what he did was sexual harassment)
2006-12-14 18:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him back and return the favor..
2006-12-14 17:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry, i wont call back
2006-12-14 17:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by gentltailya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋