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girls at my work and college keep giving me love note and their phone numbers and there's this girl at my class sh came up and said the she love me and i looked at her i and said i have girlfriend and i like her and we can be friends she start crying i didn't to hurt her feeling but what the hell did i do wrong i mean she was cute like the rest girls that give love not but i have girlfriend i mean what did i do wrong
and i tolled my girlfriend about she said (buy the starange girl flower) and she said don't be mean to the other girls in class or work.
is my girlfreind crazy i mean she italian and it's normal in culture
but what if that girl thought i like her thats making the problem even worst !
i know this sound werid but i'm not sure what to do
2006-12-14 17:17:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look you have a girl and the other girl is just going to have to accept that.......you did nothing wrong if it was me in the other girl's shoes I would cry too if the guy said that he has a girlfriend but that doesn't mean he did any thing wrong it just hurts to get rejected thats all....... it's good that you didn't forget your girl with all those girls given you all those notes ..... instead of cheating on your girl with all those cute girls you stayed faithful that's Good
good for you... so don't feel to bad just a Lil only cause she was hurt that's the only reason to feel bad OK.....
Bye
(Lil 'sita)
PS I'm part Italian
2006-12-14 17:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lil 'sita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was good that you told her that you have a gf. maybe she will back off. do you live in america now? and you and your girlfriend are from italy? well i think giving the girl a rose will only giove her the wrong idea. just talk to her but dont lead her on abotu anything. giving her a rose would.(or any flower) the problem would get worse if you did this. so dont!
the girl that cried needs tog row up. you are in a happy relationship right now and thats all that matters to you right now. some peoples can be big babies!
2006-12-15 01:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think somehow you gave her the wrong impression a woman just doesn't come out and say i love you just like that. perhaps you were giving her wrong signals you meant to be nice but she took it more than that. NOW what ever you do, do not go and bring her a flower that will only worsen the situation. Your better off next time explaining to her or apologizing if you ever gave her the wrong impression that wasn't your intention, and that if you were single you would like to see her but thats not possible as your very happy and in love with the woman you have now.
2006-12-15 01:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really do anything to stop girls from likeing u...if u have a gf ...there is nuttin u can do but tell the girls that...I would just let it known that u have a gf and try not to flirt..even if u dont think ur flirting...a girl might think u are so watch wat ya do around them....with ur gf I dont know what to say i dont think shes crazy...at least she is not mad at u!! Most girls would be upset that girls were flirting with their guy! I say wat u did was good let the other girl down easy!! Dont feel bad...u cant control who u like or who likes u...just try to let ppl know u have a gf and all ur looking for are friends!! Good Luck hope this helps!!
2006-12-15 01:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by sporty19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont send the other girl flowers. it will make her think you like her. you didnt do anything wrong the girl is a little weird thats all
2006-12-15 01:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing which is you told your girlfriend about what is happening....well just treat all the ladies right and don't make any advantages with those girls who like you because you will become unfair to your girlfriend if you do so.
2006-12-15 01:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did the right thing by telling this other girl that you had a girlfriend. maybe the way you said it wasn't very nice, though.
2006-12-15 01:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is testing you. If you really love her. don't listen to another women
2006-12-15 01:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋