Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

well the reason why iam asking is that theres alote of bad things happening with him right now like his dads in the hospital and hes working 2 jobs to help suport his famile and then on top of things hes holding his feelings in and not talking to anyone at all!! what should i do just leave him or stay and wat for him to come around.

2006-12-11 05:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Singles & Dating

We went out for dinner one night and got along just great. We were both looking for long term relationships. The next night, she invited me to her coworkers' party and then we went to a hockey game and had some drinks. It was a lot of fun and then after we went to my place to watch a movie. She immediately started wanting to fool around. I'm much more "reformed" now than I used to be, so this made me a little uncomfortable (I like to take things slow now), so I wasn't totally in to it but still went a long. We did basically everything except sex. I was doing all kinds of stuff to her, but I couldn't get her off. I'm usually very good and have a little to much experience. She couldn't get me off either though. We had a really long day together, had been drinking a while, and were both pretty exhausted. We finally decided to sleep, and then after a while she got up, got dressed and decided to head back to her place. We haven't spoken since. What's going on here? Should I text her?

2006-12-11 05:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by C 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been divorced now for six months and have decided on seeing somone. i am also the proud dad of twin five yr old boys. i have been seeing this girl now for two months and she keeps insisting that me, my boys her and her son get together and start to get to know one another...iam soooo not ready for this....my gut tells me that my boys have a mom and i just dont feel like its time yet...she is losing patience and iam about at my wits end...these kids have gone through enough already and the last thing i need to do is to add more confusion ontop of it...can someone tell me if they have been through this before, or should i just go with the flow? and YES, i have told her how i feel, but she thinks its not a big deal

2006-12-11 05:03:19 · 12 answers · asked by cott 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking 2 this guy and his friend named Jasmine keeps trying 2 make me jealous by hacking into his facebook account and adding comments onto her page pretending it's from him saying "hey baby" 2 her and she does that same thing on her facebook 2 him. he hasn't been in his facebook i know 4 a fact and i found out through a 3rd person she hates me...and she has a bf that she luvs and doesn't want 2 lose! why does she hate me??

2006-12-11 05:03:08 · 4 answers · asked by ctgenie99 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is in prison and everyone thinks I am wasting my time w/him but I've known him since I was a small child and we write/talk all the time, he wants to hook up when he gets out, what should I do? Should I care what others think?

2006-12-11 05:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating a woman for a lil over a year there was something different about her like I knew she was "the one" she left me after she moved about an hour away because I was talking to another woman on the net. I met my wife soon after and we have been together 3 yrs. I contacted my ex and she knows I am married but said if I were single again she would give me a second chance. I really love her and want to be with her. I would be better off finacially if I stayed with my wife but I think I would be happier with my ex but dont want to break my wifes heart. And if I stayed with my wife she said I couldnt contact her again. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2006-12-11 05:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by j g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hey!!! how many guys would really date and or love a plus size person?!?!?! If they a great personality and loved people all together!!!! Would this person be worth loving or not?!?!?!?

2006-12-11 05:02:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've tried.. it's hard. Any tips?

2006-12-11 05:02:27 · 24 answers · asked by Bethany 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 05:02:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my sister was in love with my bf, adn when i came into my bedroom i saw them making out, and know i called it quits with him and i told my mom that my sister was making out with my bf in my room . do u think it was the best thing to do

2006-12-11 05:01:12 · 23 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy 2 months ago, we went on a date and then he went to another city for his work. we kept in touch and we called each other every two weeks or so, we weren't in any serious relationship but we both liked each other so he said anytime he's in town he'll call me which he did 3 weeks ago and I couldn't see him so I asked him to come again soon and last weekend he called me I was at a family gathering and I couldnt really talk so I told him I'll call back. but when I called him the next day he rejected my both my calls.i dont understand if he didnt want to see me whay did he called me the night before? what does this mean and why did he rejected my calls? and I havent heard from him since that day which was 3 day ago, help me what should I do? should I call him again?

2006-12-11 05:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by lili_ed 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm shy and lonely, and was just wondering.

2006-12-11 04:59:37 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

I like this guy, and he likes me back.
so many things are stopping us from going out though;

he just broke up with his girlfriend
and my ex-boyfriend still likes me so much however, he is my best friend and I couldn't bare it if he was mad at me.

how can I go out with this guy without making 3724 people mad at us!
I like him so much!
I just wish he could be mine!

2006-12-11 04:59:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:59:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me and everything seemed perfect before....and the reason he said he broke up with me was because he said it was too fast..and that he had to know me for awhile and he said he had only known me for a few weeks...do u think there's a chance we might get back together...later..and tell me the honest truth...but he seems like he stil likes me now tho..
thats what i posted on the otha question and now we are back togethr and we have been together for a little over a month..did i do the right thing getting back with him..right now we are both happy..or at least i am..and he keeps telling me he loves me..i dunno..i just need some help

2006-12-11 04:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you could make the guys into what you want, what would you make us into and WHY, explain in detail please
don't forget , what you wish for you just may get!

2006-12-11 04:58:40 · 7 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by sublime_babe_2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has cheated on her and walked out 5 times in 5 months. Now she says she is gonna marry him. Do I turn my back and ignore or what?

2006-12-11 04:57:55 · 31 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 04:57:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i impress her just by sms i cant guess what to send her she is always serious in her studies of MBBS. so especially girls can help me out in this matter than boys.

2006-12-11 04:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by coolcody_18 1 in Friends

Here's the deal..I've been off again on again with my boyfried for 3 years, due to the fact that he is in the Navy. It has been a hard adjustment, but we are working on things. Anyway, the longest we went being not together was about 3 months, during that time I had sex with one of my guy friends, I started to really like him, but he just wanted to be friends w/benefits...so it stayed that way...well now my ex and I are getting back together and trying to make it work again, and my friend w/benefits all of a sudden wants a relationship with me!!! I don't know what the hell to do......this is so complicated..

2006-12-11 04:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:56:43 · 29 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Singles & Dating

Any one who is a step parent or step kid have some good advice for having a great relationship with yr step kid, especially when she has a strong relationship with her biological mom already?

2006-12-11 04:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by 12879 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 04:55:34 · 16 answers · asked by frank_schul 1 in Friends

i cant help it to cry because the family that i taking care for 4yrs now broken for being self centerd and selfish of my ex husband..he cheated me and chose the girl.i know that im not with him beside because his working abroad and migrate in states.it takes long to get us to fix our papers to live in states,but he cant wait and his such a liar that he told me he fixing our paper but i was shocked that his living with the girl and have kids now.i waited him and i did my best to be a faithful a good mother and a good wife but this is what i got.i loved him so much and his the only man that i loved.it hurt a lot and its like craching my heart when im thingking of all the lies thing he told me.we have two wonderful kids and when im looking at them cant help it to cry because all i wish is to have a happy family.eventhough were not rich atlist a happy one.but he broke my family that im taking care of.im crying right now because i still love him,but im hurting also of what he did to me

2006-12-11 04:55:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a a guy wanted to have sex with you for fun, and you also knew this guy how would you like to be approached? For example would like him to tell you straight, would u want approach the guy yourself etc.
Tell me your answers plz cos it might help me with one of my female friends I'm really attracted to

2006-12-11 04:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My love like a fire burning deep,
keeps my soul awake even though I sleep.
My body at rest,
my mind at peace.
My soul moves through,
space with grace and ease.
It flys to you and joins with yours.
it dances away all through the night hours.
My soul finds yours no matter how far,
it always finds you wherever you are.
One day it will happen,
my soul will lead.
We'll meet while awake you will see,
and upon that happy day I see,
our hearts will bind us awake or asleep.

2006-12-11 04:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by jeffrey_griswold2006 3 in Singles & Dating

I finished with a guy who was messing me around and I think using me to get over his ex. I now feel low. I wanted to walk away with dignity but didn't expect to feel this sad a couple of days after. Maybe it has something to do with Christmas on its way. I was kind but firm and told him I deserve more but wish him all the best. He is full of apologies but he was last time and the time before. His actions don't back up these apologies. I don't want to give him a third chance as I gave him 2 already. He was being unreliable after only a few weeks. I know I deserve more but it still feels horrible. Any ideas..... thanks to you all!

2006-12-11 04:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Singles & Dating

I was previously married for 18 years. He cheated on me every chance he got, usually by meetting women and online and advertising that he was divorced. He would never allow me to go near his computer or see his e-mail. It got to the point that he was online every single night for hours, and during the day as well and didn't even bother to lie about most of his activities.

The problem is this: We are divorced now and I have met a wonderful man. We have been living together for eight months, but he is online a lot looking things up and checking his e-mail, etc.. I can't seem to shake the feelings that I get physically and emotionally when I hear the dial-up to go online or when I see him online. I trust him and believe in our relationship, but because of my past it scares the hell out of me. How do I deal with this insecurity?

I told him about it once and he lets me sit next to him when he's online, but I still feel physically sick when I think about online cheating.

2006-12-11 04:53:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce