I like this guy, and he likes me back.
so many things are stopping us from going out though;
he just broke up with his girlfriend
and my ex-boyfriend still likes me so much however, he is my best friend and I couldn't bare it if he was mad at me.
how can I go out with this guy without making 3724 people mad at us!
I like him so much!
I just wish he could be mine!
2006-12-11 04:59:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's an impossible question. You can't please everyone. Who you go out with is your business and your boyfriend's business . . . not the whole school's business. Just go for it! Have a nice day!
2006-12-11 05:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your ex is as much of a best friend as you say he is, then he will respect your decision to date someone else. Are you going to stop dating entirely in fear that he will get mad at you? Gimme a break. Like I said, if he truly is your best friend, then he will respect and support your decision.
As for the guy you like, why don't you guys just date and hang out without the commitment? You don't want to be the rebound girl. Let him do his own thing and give him his space until he's ready to jump into another relationship.
2006-12-11 13:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by colombianqt_247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok don't worry about what other people say or think. These people aren't living your life now are they. So if you want this guy then go get him. Make him yours just don't make your ex something more than he is because your feelings for him can destroy what you are trying to build with the new guy so if you do get with that guy be respectful in the relationship and don't hide that fact because Secrects and Lie's Destroy Relationship and Lives.
2006-12-11 13:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by The Plague 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you living for? These 3724 people, or you? If neither one of you are married then there is no problem. If your ex is your best friend, then as a best friend he should be cool.
2006-12-11 13:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you two truly love each other than it should';t matter what others Say about you behind your back. just follow your heart to the place where it can be most happy and allow yourself to share in the joy. those that claim to be your friends and still talk about you aren't truly your friends if they wish ill of you so ignore and forget. and don't worry about what mightt happen in the future live life for the moment for the here and now not for the migh of might be uncertainty of the future.follow your heart because you can only learn with you brain. so stop thinking and act before it goes down the crapper. excuse my language.
2006-12-11 13:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by angel of hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question should be - y r u worried about the 3724 people
If you guys are happy - b happy in your world and screw everybody else
2006-12-11 13:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Sounds like neither of you are emotionally available right now.. He just broke up and you have feelings for your X..
- either of you could reconcile at any moment.. best to wait until the X' are behind you both.
2) As for people mad at you for living life... SCREW em (not literally)... You are entitled to a life... period.
2006-12-11 13:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by gjm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indecisiveness is a miserable way of life. It has been said, 'a brave person makes a decision and my doubt afterward' (that's human) & ' a lesser brave person doubts and then makes a desision'.(that could be cowardness)
Sitting on the fence might seem safe, but most fences are shakey.
2006-12-11 13:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by THA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about them 3724 people because if they cared about you like you cared about them then they would be happy just seeing you happy. do this for yourself if it's gonna make you happy sometimes you have to push everybody else to the side and treat yourself i say go for it go out with him and be happy if those people cared for you like you car for them them they would be happy just by seeing you happy.
2006-12-11 13:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If you've not gotten away from your ex, including being friends, don't bother the other guy. If you really liked him you'd gone out with him by now.
2006-12-11 13:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Pache 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋