I finished with a guy who was messing me around and I think using me to get over his ex. I now feel low. I wanted to walk away with dignity but didn't expect to feel this sad a couple of days after. Maybe it has something to do with Christmas on its way. I was kind but firm and told him I deserve more but wish him all the best. He is full of apologies but he was last time and the time before. His actions don't back up these apologies. I don't want to give him a third chance as I gave him 2 already. He was being unreliable after only a few weeks. I know I deserve more but it still feels horrible. Any ideas..... thanks to you all!
2006-12-11 04:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have done the right thing, hang in there, you are a hot and foxy chick, and will get through this soon enough, and fall straight into the arms of an amzing guy who will love and deserve you.................
Good luck.
xx
2006-12-11 04:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I have went through the same kind of thing for the last 6 months . The thing is that if he was really the one you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your days with you would know and you would do anything to be with this person . but if you dont feel this way just walk away and find Mr right who will come along soon . Good luck
2006-12-11 13:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by bob a builder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Happiness depends on ourselves"--Aristotle. "The art of being yourself at your best is the art of unfolding your personality into the person you want to be ....Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others."--Wilfred peterson. I hope these quote will be helpful. You sound like a strong individual and you're smart to consider the affect the holidays have on all of us. You're going in the right direction. Stay away from this guy and focus on yourself. That way you'll be open to meeting the right guy for you at some time in the future--and by working on yourself now you'll have that much more to contribute when you do find the right relationship. Good Luck
2006-12-11 13:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this one, don't you?
He's not the one for you, so grit your teeth and wait it out. You will feel better very soon, and you'll wonder why you were so bothered.
Listen, I've been desperate to get out of relationships in the past, but still managed to feel sad when they're over. It's pretty natural.
Give it a month, and see how much better you feel.
2006-12-11 13:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, sometimes doing the right thing hurts. Eventually you will get over this and yes it being Xmas does make it feel worse. You sound like you are thinking with your head, so good for you. Forget your feelings for him and whenever you feel sad and lonely and start thinking of him, just think of what he did and then move on. Go for a drive, go shopping or just keep busy.
2006-12-11 13:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he was using you to get over his ex.
If you are sure of that - Quit him, he's an idiot.
If not you will be sorry. No third chance. No! No!
2006-12-11 13:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by mail2chik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get together with your friend and have a good night out and keep busy. and don't ring or text him once a cheat always a cheat don't go back good luck x
2006-12-11 13:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made your bed.. now lie in it
2006-12-11 13:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋