Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

2006-12-11 05:22:23 · 14 answers · asked by sonya358ny 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in an abusive marriage and I left him but we have a 3 yr old daughter together. He was seeing her every other weekend. Well in July my bf's mom went to go pick her up and all she kept saying was she was going to get a knife and cut herself and make herself bleed. She was obsessed with it and went on for hours. She was acting out in rages where she would try and hurt herself throw anything she could carry. She would bite herself, hit kick anybody that came near her and she would hide in a corner and nobody could touch her. That would last sometimes 2 hours then she would come to me and calm down and go to sleep. She also kept saying she was scared. I took her to the doctor. She is going to be evaluated by a child physciarist in Jan. I have contacted Child Protective Services and no investigation has been done. He has not seen her in 4 months and wants to see her now. I don't know what to do. Does it sound like she is being abused? Should I let her go? Help!!!!!!!

2006-12-11 05:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been married almost six years i knew my husband was into latex well i found where he was posting pictures on the web and today i found a picture of him naked on my computer which was sent to someone now the picture was took a few years ago but it was put out recently now the problem is we moved three states away i was recently promoted with a great raise i not sure now to take the promotion or pack up and go home to my freinds where i will have no place to live or a job im very down right now i loved my life and now its over i cant forgive the naked photo im very home oriented person and totaly faithful so im pretty hurt

2006-12-11 05:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by Debbie W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to date a girl and she said no because she said I was rude. They always say they want honesty but when you are honest they get mad. I told her that I loved her even though her pants smelled like a seafood restaurant. I was being honest and she told me I'm a retard.

2006-12-11 05:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by Special Olympian 1 in Singles & Dating

we always talk on IM. and im gonna visit him in April..but he lives far..

2006-12-11 05:21:36 · 9 answers · asked by emokidsorrows 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, the other day i was really depressed and i wrote a bunch of poems for this girl i like that goes on my bus, we've been talking as friends and she knows i like her...but idk if she likes me
should i give her the poems? the poems are bout how i feel for her and wat she means to me...
and if i give them to her, what do i say b4 i hand the poems to her?
plz i need help wit this
thanks

2006-12-11 05:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the lie has something to do with the relationship. he was basically telling another woman he was single when we have been together for 5 months now. i found out about this because i became friends with her. she has a boyfriend and does not ant to be with him and whatnot. i need some help.

2006-12-11 05:21:16 · 17 answers · asked by klkruft_us 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got my 1st roommate. He opens the gates & my dogs get out, he leaves uncovered food in the refrig, & does laundry at 6:00 am on weekends. I need suggestions for house rules for thing I can't think of. Thanks!

2006-12-11 05:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by ladytc 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

She simply asks:

After a long trip - what can i do for him when he comes home?

I think this is in fact what it is all about. What can I do to please my spouse? If both people really lived this way I think far more marriages would be happy and last. Can you honestly say you live this way. If not why not? Of course this is a two way street but why would you not do this? If you are not I think you invite trouble and possibly temptation. What do you think?



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2006-12-11 05:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 05:20:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughters are 14 and 16, their Dad buys them everything that they want all year and especially large ticket items at Christmas. I am divorced from their Dad and dont make as much money as he does, so the gifts that I give are usually smaller to them but very hard for me to give. The problem that I am having this year is that my girls are rude, unhelpful and unappreciative. They demand that things be their way and when they are not they make me feel like crap...but Dad who has all the money can do no wrong... I only make 178 a week, their step Dad (Who they dont like and pick on) Buys them most of there stuff for Christmas, He already bought them" COACH" shoes and some nice Jewlery, I feel that they dont deserve anything else and that until they can learn to be nicer and more appreciative....Christmas has been cancelled. other than the things already bought. Am I wrong? Should I try to make them happy with more of the things that they had on their lists? I just want them to be happy.

2006-12-11 05:19:18 · 20 answers · asked by skipper 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you want to stay friends with the ex? Why or why not?

2006-12-11 05:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by Chia Pet 2 in Singles & Dating

She simply asks:

After a long trip - what can i do for him when he comes home?

I think this is in fact what it is all about. What can I do to please my spouse? If both people really lived this way I think far more marriages would be happy and last. Can you honestly say you live this way. If not why not? Of course this is a two way street but why would you not do this? If you are not I think you invite trouble and possibly temptation. What do you think?



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2006-12-11 05:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 05:18:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started dating this girl about a few weeks ago and she says she likes everything about me. She is always in a good mood. Now she has been sick the past few days of the flu and she has been very grumpy. Everything i say and do is wrong. She has been arguing with me. I just have been feeling bad because i am not really used to her getting mad like this for nothing. Should i NOT be calling her when she is sick or what? What do i do and is it normal?

2006-12-11 05:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by silver 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my "boyfriend" has been gone for his 6 month deployment. He supposed to been coming home sometime this week or last week. He never told me an exact date. So I called the ship and they answered. Does that mean that they are back in port???because when he was gone and i tried calling the ship no one answered the ship phone. I want to believe there is an explanation why i havent heard from him in 3 days through email or anything.

2006-12-11 05:17:36 · 14 answers · asked by teekee04 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 05:16:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just came out of a relationship and am wondering how long the mourning lasts and what I should be prepared for! It was long distance on and off for 6 and half years; very complicated and very intense. I left him once and he never forgave me..we both loved eachother but kept hurting eachother...

2006-12-11 05:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Singles & Dating

sad i know to revert to an agency but i have joined loopylove.com my name is neno1019 if you wanna check me out.. i have met a few people but feel its a waste of time when no one seems to be a member who i try to contact. is it a scam?

2006-12-11 05:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. I can't believe I'm gonna share this, but prolly better to ask strangers since I can't even begin to tell friends of family. So here it goes:

I recently logged onto my wife's e-mail account and say that she had a lot of e-mails to one of her male (gay) friends talking about things she wanted to do. And some of them involved ponies. Nothing too bad (not what you are thinking !), but things like riding a pony naked top get worked up and doing it with a guy (like zoro) while riding a pony, etc. I think we have a good relationship otherwise, so I don;t want to make a huge deal out of this.

I think I have three options: (1) ignore what I know, (2) confront her about this; or (3) take her to a petting zoo and try to get her to confess to this crap.

What should I do?

2006-12-11 05:16:05 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is my first girlfriend and only girl I have ever slept with.
Everytime she talks about getting married I feel sick to my stomach. I feel like it will be the end of my freedom/life. I'm 20 and have been with my girl for 3 years.

I've broken out of my shy shell and am confindent talking to other ladies. I wonder what it would be like to be with other women.

2006-12-11 05:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Actually i am looking for Shyamal Basak,my best friend in Lake School-40 years back.

2006-12-11 05:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by kalyan_habra 1 in Friends

I am a married woman of 4 years. I have 2 children one with my husband and 1 with my ex. Although I love my husband very much he is very boring, dosen't like to do anything but go to work, come home, watch television and drink. No time with me, or my children. He is just here. When I try and talk with him about it he claims he is "ALWAYS" tired and he just wants to relax at home. When I make plans to go out with my girlfriends and I don't come in when he feels that I should, he has a problem with that. I want my marriage to work and I am trying everything that I can to make it work but I'm just about out of options. By being in this situation it makes me remember all of the good times that my ex and I have and I also still have feelings for my oldest childs father. When we were together we were both young and he wasn't ready to stop playing the field. My ex still has feelings for me also. Any Suggetions.....

2006-12-11 05:15:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I knew I failed my calculus test and was mad as hell and got a 52 on it. But I talked to this girl I know in the class and she got a 32 on it which is a complete surprise since she always passes tests with ease. So anyway I felt a lot better even though I still failed the damn test. Was feeling this way wrong?

2006-12-11 05:15:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-11 05:14:31 · 11 answers · asked by shawn l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When a guys asks his girl to marry him, does it matter which knee the guy kneels on? My boyfriend keeps asking me and I tell him it doesn't matter. He thinks it does matter what knee he kneels on, just like it matters what finger to put the wedding ring on.
Which one of us is true?

2006-12-11 05:14:29 · 21 answers · asked by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 in Weddings

I mean how often (say, once a week?) do you meet some strangers in different places different time, who, shouts at you, abuses you, be mean to you, hurt you, and behave like an uneducated bytch to you?

Thanks.

2006-12-11 05:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like her alot. But everyone keep looking at me..like what are you doing? Is that bad? What should i do? She is 4'11 and 190 pounds.

2006-12-11 05:14:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the difference between good pus and lame pus. and im not talking about what the female does strictly about the goodies.

2006-12-11 05:14:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 05:13:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating