Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Do you think it's OK to snoop and check up on your spouse/significant other? (i.e. checking email accounts, online chat programs, cell phones and phone bills, etc.)

Under what circumstances would you feel it's OK to do this? Would you be upset if they snooped on you?

2006-12-11 05:54:55 · 22 answers · asked by Heather C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, here is my situation:
I am Married and have a Daughter from a previous relationship, in that previous relationship, we were not married so I gave my Daughter my maiden name. Well now since I am married I have a new last name and would like for her to have the same last name as me beacause I am having another child with my new husband and would like us all to have the same so she doesnt feel left out.Well her biological father is a bigtime A**hole and never see's her, never calls but he does pay child support. He doesnt like my new husband and I know that he would not give permission to change her name just out of spite. SO, How would I go about changing her name without him, or is there anyway I can trick him?I live in Florida btw.....

2006-12-11 05:54:43 · 9 answers · asked by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started dating this girl not even a month ago. I really really like her and i wanna earn some major points by getting her a mind blowing christmas present. I have no idea what to get her though. Shes into star wars suprisingly, and other stuff like that... if that helps... Thanks, I'm really lost here.

2006-12-11 05:54:33 · 19 answers · asked by Chazzums 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 05:54:18 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Friends

on the phone to ask if we would like Christmas day dinner with her parents.

It sounds great because i won't have to cook.

Where are you having Christmas dinner?

2006-12-11 05:53:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a person have a little or no money at all how can they keep from being sad at christmas If they cannot give their children the gifts that they deserve for christmas.

2006-12-11 05:53:08 · 29 answers · asked by adrienne e 1 in Family

That us women arent visually stimulated during sex. That its all emotional for the woman and that we dont LOVE porn. And that we dont fantasize(and often) that we dont use pretend people or pornography to help us along or just to view w/o masterbating. As though its not natural for us women to look at a man and imagine what his package looks like or for bi/les women that we dont look at a woman and imagine the same things. Why some men "hide" their porn when just maybe were hiding our own. Men arent women so they arent expected o fully know these things but what about women? Fantasies aside,being faithful is where the commitment comes in. Dont want the same meal everynight? Dont get married! Stay single,have your variety w/o dragging someone down. There are PLEANTY of ez slutz out there.
These "natural fantasies" are supposed to stay fantasies unless both people want to make them happen.


Very happily married with kids. Lots of great sex. No straying.

2006-12-11 05:53:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do not get it.
I met a guy oline and sent him some pics (I’m view as cute by most guys I think) anyway, he was really friendly and we talked on the phone once. Then for about a week and a half, he did not call. He texted me to tell me that he did not call cause he was busy. Then we talked again and had a nice convo. He never gave me a complement on my pic. he did tell me he was dating a model who grad from and Ive school. he left her because she was on drugs. he said he is looking for friends, if more develops, fine. Then we meet. We talked and he seemed to have a good time.He flirted a little with me but still no complements. We sang all the way to the train station. He hugged me and told me he would call me. It has been five days, nothing. What gives?

2006-12-11 05:53:00 · 14 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1 in Singles & Dating

I had alot of fun with my boyfriend last night. Did some things I feel very naughty about. I think I need a spanking. Do you?

2006-12-11 05:52:38 · 19 answers · asked by kisme86 3 in Singles & Dating

Days I see without your face,
You know they seems so long,
Loves never gone
That lie deep my dreams,
These words will never change,
Love will always stay the same.
love will never be gone
won't you listen to my song

Everything I see, makes me think about,
The times will have together,
Never no times without.
You are my one true love,
These words will never change.
Love will never be gone,
won't you listen to my song.

Copyright@author Will Bitmore Scram

2006-12-11 05:52:09 · 14 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend called me on my bday and said that he hasent forgoten about me that he misses me and wants to be back with me.Even though am going out with somebody he says that he luvs me ,he calles me more than my *****...But my boyfriend is like any girl would wish her guy to be,he bought me a gold ring with 4 diamonds and in the inside of the ring it said i love you baby ..what sould i do i mean am not sure if i already forgot about my ex and am not sure if i really love my *****....they r both the same but only one is 4 me

2006-12-11 05:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never dated or anything. I didn't to to prom, I've never had a kiss. I've had many crushes on girls over the years but never once did a thing about it. Is it too late for me? am I a loser? what to do what to do....

2006-12-11 05:51:10 · 28 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

im 18 never had a boyfriend, dont have many guy friends.. i dont know why ive never had a bf, ive been asked but ive just not found the right guy.. i dont see a great need in having a bf, cause all my friends with them constantly moan about how much effort they are, but sometimes i would like that companionship.. the fact i get totally shy and tongue tied around guys doesnt help either.. and no im not a lesbian im attracted to guys lol
what should i do? i like my independence but i dont want to be a spinster, grow old and be eaten by alsations!!!!
serious answers plz, sarcasm wont help the matter

2006-12-11 05:50:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

than just a friend !?

2006-12-11 05:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by gcrowders 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 05:49:37 · 22 answers · asked by Gdogg 2 in Singles & Dating

going through a divorce and every time I don't talk to my ex for 3-4 days she calls and wants to talk. Says she is torn between me and the guy she left me for.

2006-12-11 05:49:22 · 18 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and you noticed i had a hard-on ,,would you do anything about it,, or just ignor it

2006-12-11 05:48:55 · 8 answers · asked by robbie 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering. I saw my ex, it has been over 2 years since she dumped me. We just randomly bumped into each other at the gas station, I really didn't say much to her. It really hurt to see her after all this time. I have moved on and have a great woman in my life (we are getting married next year). However when I saw this ex, I just remembered all the pain she put me through. (She cheated on me and dumped me. I found out she cheated on me after, she is now married to him). It made me sad. I just want to know if this is natural. I have no desire to reconncect with this ex, and I love my fiance. Is it okay to feel the pain and remember when I crossed her path.

2006-12-11 05:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by tannedknight45 5 in Family

Would you take a chance and talk to one of your brothers if you want some guy advice on what this other guy's actions mean? even if you were wondering why a guy would stare at your chest and ogle you suggestively or not? We're not that close but one of them was the first one I went to after I was uh sexually assaulted(don't worry it was a long time ago and justice was served and I got counseling).

I'd want to tell my mom what this one guy is doing and how I'm feeling but I don't want to freak out.

So don't tell my brothers or what? I'm not sure if any one of them would tell our mom if I told them. they're 25 and 29 and I'm 22.

What'd you suggest?

2006-12-11 05:48:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please help a brother out
Actually i'm white hawaiian and japanese but you get the picture

2006-12-11 05:48:35 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have been dating this guy for a while now, he is like 15 years older than me. We only argue or fight over one thing, its the same thing over and over, something he doesn't like about my past. Other than that we get along great! But when we argue he says really hurtful things about me. Like I am a N lover and all this stuff. I am not racist at all I have a mixed child...he says hes not rasicst but doesn't believe in mixing races. Another thing is his kids are grown and I have a 2 year old...so should I try to stick in there an hope things will work out or get rid of him?

2006-12-11 05:48:28 · 55 answers · asked by HoplesslyNLuv 1 in Singles & Dating

My whole life just falls apart 2 or 3 days before I start my period. I crave sugar and can't control my intake. I feel terrible. I cry at the drop of a hat. Today, was my 6 year old's day to bring snacks to school. Well, I forgot. Now, I'm crying uncontrollably. I have eaten like 5 peanut butter balls. I am miserable, grumpy. Am I a terrible mother for forgetting the snacks? Is there any treatment out there, except for antidepressants(I'm a nurse, I know all about those. I don't want to have anything to do with them) I'm feeling sorry for myself, I know, but I don't want to face my daughter after school when she tells me that I forgot to send the snacks with her. I realize more horrible things can happen, but it seems like every month, I do more and more things to disappoint people during those 2 or 3 days.

2006-12-11 05:48:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we are coworkers have everything in common we love hangin out with eachother sex is great but she cant make up her mind on if she wants to be with me what do you do?

2006-12-11 05:47:46 · 23 answers · asked by jojojake3825 1 in Singles & Dating

we have a child together but have been apart for 4 yrs ( i live in CA and he lives here en CHILE) he found a girlfriend and is having a baby with her .....

2006-12-11 05:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by chachi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

iv known this guy for about a year now.i don't see him very often 1 a week if that and we don't talk much. i didn't really find him attractive,id go to the pub with my mates and meet him and all his mates there. We would have a laugh and stuff and that was about it and he's always offer to give me a lift home but always dropped me off last :s. him and his mates are always joking about and this guy always like oh id do you or you know asking me question if i think he's hot. but i know he's only messing cause there all like that. Lately over the pat few months i really can not stop thinking about him he's ALWAYS on my mind. i admit i do find him a little attractive but thats only cause iv got to know him but i don't see him as a bf cause that would just be weird.when i read stuf like 12signs ur falling in love i thinking about him.i can't possibly be in love with him i don't know him that well.+he's got a gf but he's always flirting with me & when he txt me i he puts a smile on my face.

2006-12-11 05:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We met this woman on a nature trip about a year ago. She sent a christmas card this year to my husband. She addressed it to him but inside she addresses it to our family. She also mentions looking forward to being on the same trip as him in the future. This person was very rude to me on the trip. My husband told me he does not like this person. He wants me to be the one to send a card in return. My question is should I send a card with a message in a polite way of back off or no card or just a card signed from the family? I feel that this person wants more then just a card. Right now, I have a card signed from the family to be sent but I have second thoughts. Thank You in advance just for reading this. Serious Anwers Only please.

2006-12-11 05:45:30 · 23 answers · asked by Red Angel 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently left a post about a friend of mine who hasnt contacted me in a couple weeks.lots of people told me i should call him just so i can feel better,well i finally pushed myself to call him and we spoke for a few secs then he told me he would call me back in a few mins.this jerk never called me back and now im even more pissed!its surprising to me that he would do things like this because we just recently got back in contact after several years.the next time we speak im planning on ending the situation completely.does that seem like a good idea?if anyone has any other suggestions please let me know.

2006-12-11 05:45:17 · 4 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

If I do take up the profession does that mean I will have no choice but to sleep with women that have their nipples by their knees and what resembles a hedgehog with its guts hanging out between their legs?

2006-12-11 05:45:10 · 13 answers · asked by t00t5 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 been married 3 years and I think that he gets bored with me. I dont know what else to do to make it better. He is always online looking at porn. What can I do to tear him away from the computer and get him to notice me?

2006-12-11 05:44:12 · 29 answers · asked by jennilou82 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help!


I have been friends with this guy for about three months. We really enjoy one anothers company and he tells me so. I did not think anything of him, But I now realize that I really like him more than just a friend. He tells me I’m cute and when I tell him that I need a good guy, he says things like “why not me” I cannot tell if he is joking or not. However, I do not know what to do. Help!!!!!

2006-12-11 05:42:58 · 49 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1 in Singles & Dating