we are coworkers have everything in common we love hangin out with eachother sex is great but she cant make up her mind on if she wants to be with me what do you do?
2006-12-11 05:47:46 · 23 answers · asked by jojojake3825 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she doesn't want a relationship but really enjoys your company. Life is too short to worry about legistics and labels, maybe you two should just enjoy what you have together and if it works for you then great, if not you will still be able to salvage the friendship if you have a good line of communication (hopefully you have that) and are able to keep your hands off eachother. (might be difficult if the sex is great, but friends will always be there) sounds like she's SUPER confused and maybe loves you being around, but you'll have to make your own decision, if you think she's worth staying a friend with. Otherwise just say, "adios chica".
2006-12-13 11:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't make up her mind, that means that she doesn't want anything permanent with you...but she enjoys what you have currently. If you get along well, and the sex is great...stop worrying about the rest. Go with the flow, and enjoy it for as long as it lasts.
2006-12-11 05:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is with you while hoping that something better comes along. You should start walking away and see if she comes after you. Maybe that will make her realize that she doesn't want to lose you. But if she continues playing the game, then you have to break off with her and find someone who appreciates you and wants to be with you.
2006-12-11 05:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you are going to give her some time to "decide" what she wants, but let her know when and if she does it may be to late your life and happiness will not be put on hold back off and become less available, make plans with other people whatever if shes smart and worth it she will realize you are the best thing shes ever had
2006-12-11 05:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by undeniable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hung around with a guy for 2 years doing that. I waited and waited while he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me or not. I finally got fed up and told him I couldn't see him anymore - that it was just too difficult for me. A few months later he came begging for me to be with him.
Maybe if you stop seeing her it may be the push she needs to decide. If she comes back to you - great! If not, well, then you know it was not meant to be.
2006-12-11 05:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by edawns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give Up
Its Just Sex
2006-12-11 05:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Paradise * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this sounds like she thinks you just want to have "fun". Why don't you just try talking to her about it. If she still doesn't know give her some more time. In the end she will probably say yes.
2006-12-11 05:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't sound like things will go your way. End it now, or change jobs and hope that helps you out. Good luck.
2006-12-11 05:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is only using you for the sex!
2006-12-11 05:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep hittin it like a pound puppy until it either turns bad or she commits.
2006-12-11 05:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by JayScrounge 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋