Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

I left the town they had been born in because I married someone who lived a couple of towns away. I stupidly sold our home and moved to his. That was about two and a half years ago. The marriage is now over. The girls now want to stay in the town we moved to. I don't really want to. I work in the town we left.
I am willing to stay in this town for them though. The problem I am having is finding a place I can afford on my own. If we went back to the town we were from it would not be a problem. Should I force them to move or should I find something here for them? I might be able to swing an apartment.
Anyone have any experience or words of wisdom. I want what is best for the kids.

2006-12-11 06:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what text is simple and cool to ask a girl out through sms?
please provide me some examples,
the reason i am asking her out through sms is she is busy doing work all the time .....

2006-12-11 06:06:07 · 8 answers · asked by Kewl guy 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this guy for almost 2 years now and i dated him for 2 weeks like 4 weeks ago,we broke up because my cousin and his cousin (bestfriends) were'nt happy i was dating him. but we still both really like eachother and want to be together.i'm 13 he is 16.well i started dating this other guy when i stopped talking to my ex for a couple weeks.well when i stopped talking to my ex and was dating another guy.i'm 13 and he's 17. i realized how much i wanted to be with him and how much i loved him. so i broke up with the new boyfriend and me and my ex are back together...now my ex's sister wants to beat me up and my ex is calling me a slut and everything but i'm not i usually couldn't careless what people think but this is really hurting me because i hate when people call me a s-l-u-t....

i'm really mature for my age.that's why i date older guys because i don't like immature young annoying guys!


Any suggestions???

2006-12-11 06:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by That girl 1 in Singles & Dating

what does ti mean when a girl look at u for like 10 secs right i nu eyes and u look back. but noone dont say noting. busaec this girl at church did this. and after the church was about to over the guy say lets pary and go home she look at me for like 15 secs. that fter she was about to left she look at me, buti am so shy i dont go and talk to her but what does it mean.

2006-12-11 06:05:37 · 3 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

Are women able to overlook differences for this point? Are they able to lie and convince themselves they are compatible with this person just for the sake of security?

2006-12-11 06:05:23 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married a year. He never shows me any affection. All he ever does is sit on a ******* ps2. We are newly weds and only have sex maybe twice a month. He likes to go out at about midnight and stay out for 2-3 hours and he says that he needs his time to himself. What I don't understand is why would he need to go out if he never pays any attention to me. I've tried everything I know to do to get his attention, but he gets mad when I disturb him and his game. He sits on his game from the time he gets home from work until about midnight and then he leaves. And he makes sure to let me know that he doesn't want me to go with him. He actually gets mad if I push going with him. I need advice.

2006-12-11 06:04:52 · 28 answers · asked by punkins_wife121705 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21,... I work, go to school.. I have no boyfriend,... I hardly go out,... I want to get married and have a kid,... I want a daughter! Oh I do, I do.

Should I adopt one,.. while I'm waiting for marriage haha ...and I don't even have a boyfriend,... what can I do?? ...I want to be a mommy,... and YES ....I know the responsibilities!!!

2006-12-11 06:02:57 · 22 answers · asked by Lizzeth 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom is a quadriplegic and barely gets enought money each month to pay her bills. I'm 19 and not at home anymore but I have a little sister at home still. I'm going to help my mom as much as I can but its not going to very much. Just wondering if anyone knew where she might be able to get some help this late in december? We live a little north of indianapolis.

2006-12-11 06:02:41 · 3 answers · asked by cakes0715 1 in Family

sex sometimes.

Perhaps, too busy.
too tired,
too stressed,...

2006-12-11 06:02:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

call it old fashiond, but I do not like giving BJ's I have only done it twice and I did not like it. but men, could you be with a girl that gave you everything but that. I do not get it. in my time. guys did not even want that. now it is all the rage. but back on the subject if you have a girl that:

was hot to death
cook her *** off
loyal
can count how many men she has been with on one hand
no kids
educated


if you were looking for a long term thing. wouldnt that be enough?

2006-12-11 06:02:12 · 22 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy i work with...And i dont know what to do he has a girlfriend...At times i know we are flirting with eachother, but it's only in a friendly way, or at least thats what i'm guessing....And i dont know what to do, should i just try and get over him as soon as possible???

2006-12-11 06:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki M 1 in Singles & Dating

It's for her birthday

2006-12-11 06:01:05 · 15 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boyfriend dumped me cause i didnt kiss him yet. but before i tell you anything- hes the first one to say that he wanted our first kiss to be special, so he said at the dance coming up. then two days later he was begging me saying i cant wait no more i want the kiss now. and so i said no im sticking to what you said in the first place. then 3 days later he dumps me over that and now he wants to go out with his slutty exgirlfriend that cheats on him when they go out and he knows it too! i love him soo much and he just broke my heart. what should i do? should i make him jelous at the dance? im all confused right now. please help me and tell me what i should do and dont be an a$$whole about it!

2006-12-11 06:01:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm curious about something... i was making out with a girl at my place the other day and we were drinking a lot, so eventually she said she had to pee very bad, but things got more interesting and we ended up having sex... I asked her if she didn't wanna use the bathroom before but she said no, and i know for a fact she DID need to pee pretty bad because she hadn't peed all evening and we had drunk a lot, and after we were done she dashed desperately to the bathroom...

Which got me curious... how many of you girls actually like to have sex on a full bladder? Why? Does it feel any different?

2006-12-11 06:00:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her, but only has a friend. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.

2006-12-11 05:59:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm single and have a "%$&@ buddy". This buddy started working at the same place of employment as I about a year ago. Things have been going fine....no one is the wiser to our "activities". Nothing will ever come of this "arrangement" and in fact we haven't enjoyed our "benefits" for about 8 or more months. Recently a new man started working at my company that has just swept me off my feet. I know, I know, you shouldn't get involved with co-workers....that's not my question. My question is....do I tell the new guy about the "buddy" or just hope that he doesn't somehow find out?

2006-12-11 05:59:37 · 9 answers · asked by manatee lover 2 in Singles & Dating

I come from a very large immediate and extended family, and we are all very close. We often hold family gatherings to celebrate holidays, birthdays, and the like. Obviously, we all introduce our significant others to the family as soon as feel feel there is something substantial going on. What I am curious about, is when is it appropriate to bring your new date to family functions? It's not an issue of acceptance; my family is very inclusive. I am more concerned about the fact that unfortunately, many relationships don't last. Is it fair, especailly to all the little ones in the family, to continually bring a different guy (or girl) to family functions? Does bringing a different date to every dinner undermine the idea that family is forever? Is it unreasonable for a couple to wait until they have been together for a certian period of time before making a dual appearance at a family function? I am interested in your thoughts.

2006-12-11 05:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by mlle-fantine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so there's this guy in my school and we really haven't been friends or anything, but this year we got really really close and kind of became best friends and it's fun to hang out with him and all that, but i have been taking him only as a male friend. BUT today he sent me this huge romantic email (and he's a writer), where he actually says that he loves me. And i really don't know what to do, cause i don't think i'll mangae to develop any romantic feeling towards him but i don't want to loose my best friend. what should i do???

2006-12-11 05:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by masha 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband used to be good looking but he has completly let him self go.Hes put on so much weight it has become a health and safety issue to even think about s*ex never mind doing it.Ive had enough and im meeting his female cousin tonight for a bit of no strings fun.Im not really bothered where i get s*ex from and i dont see why i should feel guilty,afterall its him that has allowed himself to turn into a human pig.I cant leave him as i couldnt afford to go to bingo 3 times a week on the money i earn.Should i tell him though?I mean he loves me so much that he,d probably put up with it anyway

2006-12-11 05:57:18 · 50 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend around the world , what is the romantic moment in ur life ? first date ?propose? or valentine day?pls describe the details~! thank you

2006-12-11 05:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by aeeyo1314 4 in Weddings

2006-12-11 05:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by sana 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this girl for over a year and a half shes been married twice and divorced twice ,I ve been divorced my self and weve been through alot over her past a million times shes saying shes not ready for me every day but we never find are selfves apart for a very long time , I own my own hjome and she rents and Im never there... she is on anitdeppressants right now and everything is fine but I wonder if there is a monster inside just waiting for her to say she needs her space!!!...
Im trying to make this short But im willing to sell my house adn move in with her since its mostly how we live now .
I would ask her in a heart beat to marry me,in fact I almost thought about trying to get her pregnant to help her get over her past,, I know thats not fair but I want to say it

Any help for me!!

2006-12-11 05:56:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 05:56:38 · 13 answers · asked by sexybitch 1 in Friends

My boyfriend just told me that it bugs him that I have alot of guy friends...what should I do? He also told me that he wasn't the jealous type or anything...is he sending me mixed messages? What should I do? ignore his feelings about other guys? I have only 1 question remaining for today so im going to ask a few:
1. whats a good x-mas gift for a jguy?
2. the best kissing spot on the body?
3. where to place my hands when i kiss him?
4. would a guy appreciate a girl who dances too close to him or would he think the girl is being easy?
thanks everyone...please answer all questions so i can have some idea and something to read since i cant post anymore questions for today. kisses!!

2006-12-11 05:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by Debbie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 05:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this guy before i started dating my ex. My ex and I were best friends, now he wants nothing to do to me. The new guy was not the cause of my break up. Should he be punished for the sake of my ex? Or should I go for it? If I should, does it matter that he lives thousands of miles away?

2006-12-11 05:55:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex left his son and me for someone eles ( we were having big problems) but we kept a relationship going on the side i have told him many times that i wanted to be left alone and he refused to do so. a week ago i got fed up i blocked his #'s in hope that he would relize that he actually lost me and that i would not be there to be a friend or support him like i always have. why is it that he is finally listening what i really wanted was for him to relize that he lost a good thing and maybe he would come back.

2006-12-11 05:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just bought this cute girlie style t-shirt, with a picture of Chip n' Dale on it, and it says "Nuttin' But The Best". This was one of my favorite cartoons as a kid, and I still watch it today if it's ever on, so I just had to get it. But do you think that people are going to read this and think that it has some kind of dirty message??? Do you think that the fact that I have big boobs would make my shirt sound kinky or somethin'??? I know that if this was a guy's shirt, than yes, it would have another meaning also. but this is a girl's shirt. Tell me what you think!

I ask this because I have another shirt with a picture of Thumper from Bambii on it, and it says "Thumper's Delicious Nutricious Carrots $.10" I didn't think this had a dirty messgae, but everytime I wore it, guys would always stare at it and make some kind of flirty remark, as if they were telling me that they liked the message on my shirt. Either way, I really like both shirts, and I'm still gonna wear them!!!

2006-12-11 05:55:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not a very romantic guy, but I would like to do something extremely romantic for my wife. Something "over the top" but not cheesey. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-11 05:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 05:54:56 · 9 answers · asked by joshw 1 in Weddings