I was married in July to my boyfriend of 5 years. I got pregnant on the honeymoon. (We're both 25 btw). A month later he left me for his ex from high school, who he hadn't seen in 8 years; said he was always in love with her and didn't know he would find her again; sorry.
Before he left for boot camp (marine corps) last month, he told me that she is pregnant too. She is 3 months behind me, and is due two days after our wedding day.
The divorce was final last week. He is paying child support, medical, half of daycare, and had to get a life insurance policy on himself.
He and I are both drug free. She abuses meth, although I am assuming she quit right now for the pregnancy (who knows.) I also really don't like her, as she took my husband from me. I am no longer sad that we are not together, but I don't like her anyways.
My question is, how do I handle this? Our kids will be half-siblings; I don't trust her around any kid, what do I do to let the kids see each other?I want to be fair
2006-12-11
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