I was in a relationship of sorts with someone for almost a year. We met when we both lived in the same city then both moved back to our home towns after a few months. He was always in control of our situation, and I was never sure of him. We weren't technically an item and were seeing other people.
I met him when I was visiting the city he lives in and we slept together. I found out after I got back that he has a girlfriend. He has asked me to go away with him in the New Year. Is it wrong if i go? I'm in love with him and I keep hoping he will change his mind about the other girl. Am i being very silly?
2006-12-11 23:17:53 · 14 answers · asked by Silly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing YOU...he will never lave his girlfriend for you, and even if he did, would you want to be with him? Wouldnt you always wonder if he was pulling the same crap on you as he is on her? Don't go w/ him anywhere!
2006-12-11 23:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already has a girlfriend and wants to go away with you then odds are he wants his cake and eat it to. Why does he need to have this other gf if he like or loves you? If he really wants to be with you then tell him he needs to leave the other girl. After all keep in mind once a cheat always a cheat and if you are willing to give him what he wants knowing he is with someone else he is thinking you are easy. So put an end to it and tell him straight out that if he likes you and wants to be with you then he needs to end things with her. If he doesn't then you have your answer. If he does then you may have the start of a wonderful relationship. If he doesn't then consider yourself lucky. You will find the perfect guy out there for you. Here is wishing you the best of luck.
2006-12-12 07:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
To put it mildly. Yes you are silly.
He was always in control, you were never sure of him (indicates trust issues), seeing other people, you slept with him (big mistake there...)..,
And to top it all off- the cream on the top of the double frappachino!
HE IS ALREADY GOING OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE!!!
Yes, you twit! Going out with him again is a mistake of near Biblical proportions. Its like a submarine commander saying to his crew; "Its a bit stuffy in here- I think I'll open the hatch to get some air in here..."
He will never change his ways or his mind.
Walk away little girl- walk away!
The Iceman.
2006-12-12 07:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me here girl, I know this subject well. First of all he's using you like a cheap whore, which is okay as long as you know it and accept it. He is not going to change his mind about his wife/girlfriend, he's not in love with you, he watns to F your brains out until he gets tired of you. You already said you were seeing other people so I think you answred your own question.
2006-12-12 07:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is USING you, he won't leave his girlfriend for you, he is sleeping with both of you at the same time, I am not gonna call you a skank, but I do think that you owe it to yourself to have more self respect and not see this loser again.
2006-12-12 07:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are being very silly because if he wanted you he would be with you and not her. also you dont love him because if you did you wouldnt be 'technically an item but seeing other people'. skanks like us are better off staying single until we decide to grow up and take responsibilty. im not ready for that yet are you?
a wise monkey never monkeys with another monkey's monkey
2006-12-12 07:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being USED and if you go with him you will be telling him it's ok to continue to use you.
If he really cared for either one of you he would break it off with the other.
He's insensitive and you are allowing him to have his cake and eat it to.
Please don't disrespect yourself any longer, get someone that will care and love you the way you deserve.
2006-12-12 07:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i'm sorry you're in love with him, but he's playing two girls at once and being dishonest about it. tell him you will be looking for someone unattached to spend the evening with, and don't call this cheater anymore.
2006-12-12 07:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a word, yes. give it up. he hasnt left hid gf for u by now, he aint gonna. he has never wanted to be properly commited to you, why would u wanna be with a guy who treats u like this?
2006-12-12 07:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not either you just got played but the sad thing is you let it happen to yourself.
2006-12-12 07:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Louis K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋