I have fallen for my best friend, i had the courage to tell him how i felt, and now i'm in the middle of wondering how i should react or what i should do? I've found things in him i've never found in anyone else, and he's everything i've ever wanted. I know if it's meant to be it will happen and if not it won't but it's weird because everyone tells me that he has feelings for me and he's just scared but he says he doesn't and he even tells me he is scared he's been on his own for so long and its hard for him to love when he's lost (both parents are descesed). THe weird part kicks in when we're together its like were are really "TOGETHER." Everything fits and feels right but then it goes back to the whole just friends thing. Then my birthday just passed recently and he totally suprised me on the gift and when i asked him why he said because i was worth it and just seeing me happy was all he needed and the thanks he needed but he is what makes me happy.....
2006-12-11 23:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by roxyangel0007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So what is the problem then?
Are you scared it's too good to be true or something?
Take a risk and go for it. I had a close friend once who I should have "gone for" and I regret not doing it now.
2006-12-11 23:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be shy or also he values your friendship and he does not want to risk loosing it..I dated a good friend that I have known for years and it did not work out and now that friendship is gone...But Iife is about chances...maybe you can give him some incouragement, if you would like him more than just a friend.
2006-12-12 07:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel but i guess i can't help you...u are the only one can help yourself...my advice is,try to react as usual even its hard to do that...i agree when u said that "I know if it's meant to be it will happen and if not it won't"..i think u should wait for his reaction...if he trully in love with u too,then,dont worry,he'll let u know...u just have to be patience...anyway,i'm glad to have news from u soon...gud luck!!!
2006-12-12 07:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by conrad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think is he into you really think how he acts if you tell him you dont want to look dumb and dont just tell him do it a littl each try if he freaks stop i told my best friend i loved him and we have been together for 7 years and have a daughter good luck
2006-12-12 07:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by terri l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what are you asking?
um.. if you mean what you should do, i guess, you should just really tell him, talk to him. confront him.
he said he doesn't likes you? did he or not?
because it is obvious he likes you. and yeah, i agree that it's hard for him to love when he lost both parents. so give him time but don't give up! if you are meant for him, he'll love you too.
2006-12-12 07:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by smallorganic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your bestfriend has feeling for you too but too shy to tell you coz maybe he is thinking that since you admitted to him your feelings, you might think he is taking advantage of you..your bestfriend loves you enough not to offend you..
2006-12-12 07:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what in the blank are you waiting for?
2006-12-12 07:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋