My bf has a serious sex addicition problem. ANd I'm really worried that he might be seeing other women because I'm not putting out. We haven't had sex in months.He says he loves but I think he's seeing another girl. How do I ask him with out making him mad?
2006-12-11 23:14:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no easy way to ask that question and get an honest answer. Maybe he is just a sex addict with you. Maybe he is so attracted to you that is why he wants sex all the time. Short of following him around to find out if he is seeing someone else or not you really have no way of finding this out. Unless you want to do war of the roses on 95.5 radio station. What they do is call him up and tell him they are doing a serve on who buys roses on the Internet or go to the store and if they answer the question they will send a dozen free roses to whom ever he would like. If he tells them to send them to you, you will know if he sends them to someone else you will know. Either way you will have your answer. If you don't want to take that course then sit him down and have a serious conversation with him and explain to him how you are feeling and your fears. If he is a great guy he will tell you the truth but seriously put the shoe on the other foot if you were him and cheating would you tell him? Best of luck to you I really hope he is not cheating and things work out great for you.
2006-12-11 23:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he is a sex addict, and you dont respond to his sex needs now, do you honestly think that he will be faithful to only you hereafter, even if you give in to sex?
It seems that this is a case of woman chasing man. Better to forget him, as sex addicts are hard to cure.
2006-12-12 07:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a serious sex addiction problem...and he isnt getting it from you...well, what do YOU think???? No point in asking him, odds are he will lie.
2006-12-12 07:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you not putting out do you have someone else because thats what your not putting out makes your BF think then he thinks if she can do it so can I.
2006-12-12 07:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a sex addiction problem and you aren't satisfying that who do you think is?
2006-12-12 07:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comment on how he is a horn dog and ask how he is dealing with not having intimacy with you.
2006-12-12 08:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut some sex addicts don't care where they get it from so be careful as well and use protection with him if you go there
2006-12-12 07:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋