Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Alright, so after I broke up with my g/f a couple months ago, I'm moving on.

I had been liking this girl (we'll call her C) for a little while untill she got back with her b/f, and I started pursuing this other girl I had an interest in.(and we'll call this other girl K).

So I've been talking to K for a while now and I'm ready to maybe possibly make a move and yesterday I saw C and now I find out that C really likes me and is wanting to break up with her b/f.

Weird thing too...both of these girls are friends.

2006-12-11 21:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

I believe they do. I have a hard time opening up to a person. I tend to hold things back and it normally makes things somewhat difficult for a relationship to form. What say you?

2006-12-11 21:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3 in Singles & Dating

she doesnot talks to me bangs the phone offs the cell told me earlier do not put ur feet in my house i miss her terribly , simply because of misconception she has left please suggest i want her back it is over 4 monthe seeing her i cry in night please come back namita please suggest some idea i have never hit her no is 033-24005440, written several apology letter but of no use 1000 of sms no use please namita come back love u immensibly cannot live without you your's only raju 0129-2510240

2006-12-11 21:18:45 · 12 answers · asked by p s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I just have sex with her and hide my true emotions for her? I have feeling for this chick but I am pretty sure she is just keen for sex . How do i ask her how she feels ? I have only met her a few times . I am 24 she is 31 she has travelled heaps . Maybe I should aim for someone a bit younger. Would appreciate your advice....thanks

2006-12-11 21:17:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

little leo eats a of our willows? Why?

2006-12-11 21:16:51 · 3 answers · asked by Mike Hunt 2 in Singles & Dating

my room mate has a boyfriend and they've been together for a bout 2 yirs now... dat's her longest.... her problem with her boyfriend is that she doesn't find him sweet...but she feels that the guy really loves him. he changed her life.. she used to be a drunkard.. but when she met him..she has changed a lot.. the guy also has made a lot of sacrifice for her..

one time.. she met this cute guy during her vacation.. she was into him and so as the guy.. she finds him sweet and caring...
they've been goin out for quite sometime now without the knowledge of her BF... she just said yes to him last week..
the guy also knows that the gurl already has a boyfriend...

now her problem is that, she loves them both. and can't decide on whom to give up...

the 1st BF has a stable job...and he really loves her..
the other guy is a college student.. the gurl is also a student..

now. who do you think should she give up??? the matured guy or the sweet one?

2006-12-11 21:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by _nakahhidit_ 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think of this word especially involved with feelings . for example : do you think of me as much as I do ? maybe ...... what a word , ok I think most of the times means yes cause otherwise you say NO and that's it . What do you think about ? especially you men ?

2006-12-11 21:14:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 21:14:17 · 11 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 21:10:20 · 10 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Singles & Dating

i dont no if they would like me iv nevor really talked to guys with dark skin coz they just arnt around .....bt they are so hot
do black guys like white chicks or not?

2006-12-11 21:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by sparkles 1 in Singles & Dating

What is love when it is with an intimate person. NOT your immediate family.

2006-12-11 21:08:33 · 15 answers · asked by CRUNKMAN 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 21:07:28 · 21 answers · asked by beaume 2 in Singles & Dating

he's been my friend now for 5 years, he was always there when i need him, i know that he has feelings for me eversince... then he went abroad, he's in korea for a year now, he keeps on calling me by phone almost every week or twice a month, & giving me e-mail letter & even send a text message on my mobile.

He is so kind, quite a good looking guy too! then recently he told me his feelings thru phone... i was just glad he wasnt here w/ me when he confessed his true feelings. i'm aware of that even before, i just ignore when his giving me a hint... but now that he told me, i cant even answer his phone calls, i'm trying to avoid his e-mails.

he said he'll wait if i'm ready...but i dont want him to wait!
i dont love him, how should i say it?

i just treat him as friend or more of a brother!

2006-12-11 21:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by ayu 2 in Friends

It seems someone's always ready to bail out on the other person. Just my observation.

2006-12-11 21:06:10 · 13 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont think im a lesbian...there aren't lesbian's in my country..its a taboo in our society.
i do go to church..
i dont watch porn...
or drink..or party.
i never looked at my friend with a lusty feel..or a feel to have sex with her..
which i dont even know how it would be like..cause we both are females...
so its impossible to be a normal sex..
i dont want that with her..
i just want to have her with me life long..
living together under one roof.
while she is a muslim...
she is not a religious muslim..she doesnt pray or wear the headscraf.,
but her family has the values.she practices meditation..
she is very much modern..i admire everything about her..her sense of style and her sharp and attractive features.
maybe,
IT IS ADMIRATION...AND I ALWAYS THINK ITS LOVE..
AND I TEND TO THINK I WANT HER LIFE LONG..
recently,i have been spending money on her..for her personal things..and a mp3 as a gift,i got it for her though she never mentioned that she wants it from me..i just ahd the feel to do it for her,..because of her financial contraints
i have been helping out with her education fund..while im still a student at a university...
im doing all i can for her...
but i think im just destroying myself...
i need a lot of time...to get rid of my thoughts on her..as i have known her for 7 years and been deeply into her past this 3 years..

2006-12-11 21:06:09 · 3 answers · asked by FaTaLe Attraction 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 21:03:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

New Year's

2006-12-11 21:02:29 · 3 answers · asked by starvampress 2 in Singles & Dating

I always liked "Yahtzee" myself.

2006-12-11 21:01:36 · 13 answers · asked by Singletary 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went to see the at the weekend. and we had a nice day. we went for lunch, Then a nice walk round the park.Later on that evening as we were watching T.V we sat close together on the sofa.We kissed and she reached into my trousers again. When we had finished what we were doing. I told her I loved her and had for a long time, and I asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend. She said although she thinks I am nice,and cute.She is not in love with me,
How can this be if, she gives me Oral sex and we masturbate together ? were am i going wrong ?

2006-12-11 21:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They plan to go out on the 21st. Her parents are ok with it though, and im stunned.

2006-12-11 20:59:31 · 21 answers · asked by kangcarew200 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 20:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am marrying my Indian fiance in India next July, and he has been here in England illegally for 7 years (of which we have been together 3, just so you don't think i am being tricked into getting him a visa). I have looked all over the internet and tried to contact his embassy, but i just can't seem to find any solid evidence of exactly what we will need to do to successfully obtain a visa for him after we are married. Any suggestions very gratefully appreciated!

2006-12-11 20:56:54 · 13 answers · asked by sarah l 1 in Weddings

I was wondering if I have to worry everytime when my gf has a close male friend ..? because, my ex started to have a close male friend, while I was in a relationship with her, I really thought he was her friend and never worrried about it too much because I trusted her, but later I discovered they becomed more than just friends and she left me later for him ....What do you think about that, we would definitely not allowed our gf to have male friends ..?

2006-12-11 20:56:13 · 15 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

looks after my kid whenever i go out[most nights]spends a fortune on vegi food for me,lends me money,loves me lots and is an all round to good to be true lady?anyone out there got an amazing ma??tell me about them.

2006-12-11 20:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Family

Me & 2 friends have a 'crisis' meeting with another of our friends tonight. We're of a group of about 30, & everyone else has had enough of her. She lies, she stirs, she b.tches behind peoples backs, & does nothing but whinge and moan. You might think we're crazy, but she suffers from depression which is why we want to try and tell her she's aliennating herself. None of our friends want her to come to their NYE party, and we have to tell her and tell her why. She is nearly 40 years old and we've only known her for 6 months, and she has no other friends. I don't want to be too harsh to her, but she needs to be told that her behaviour is going to end up in her losing this group of friends too. How do we be supportive to her without coming across mean? It's very tough being friends with someone who is so down all the time about everything, and others will no longer tolerate her. How do we approach this? Thanks in advance...

2006-12-11 20:55:09 · 10 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Friends

if a girl says she wants to be single just now how long should i wait to ask her out

2006-12-11 20:54:18 · 15 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and never been kissed - I just started going out with this guy (my first boyfriend) He's kinda shy - what o you think kinda the average time of going out is before the first kiss - should i be nervous - i know i would be his first too!

2006-12-11 20:53:16 · 22 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

i love my boy friend alot this days he have change i feel he want keep distance how can i keep distance from him please help how can i be far from him i am tired to see this thing

2006-12-11 20:49:59 · 3 answers · asked by leen j 1 in Friends

i am secrectley in love with a chick i work with, i want to let know my feeling in a special. her birthday is coming up on 31st. i would like to buy her a gift that will be "effective" and meaningful on my feelings and affordable. any suggestions?

2006-12-11 20:49:40 · 2 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it realy a bad thing if a girl is bending over and her thpngs/panties show, or worst when their butt shows? You tell me ladies and guys...

2006-12-11 20:44:59 · 20 answers · asked by markleo1977 1 in Singles & Dating