i dont think im a lesbian...there aren't lesbian's in my country..its a taboo in our society.
i do go to church..
i dont watch porn...
or drink..or party.
i never looked at my friend with a lusty feel..or a feel to have sex with her..
which i dont even know how it would be like..cause we both are females...
so its impossible to be a normal sex..
i dont want that with her..
i just want to have her with me life long..
living together under one roof.
while she is a muslim...
she is not a religious muslim..she doesnt pray or wear the headscraf.,
but her family has the values.she practices meditation..
she is very much modern..i admire everything about her..her sense of style and her sharp and attractive features.
maybe,
IT IS ADMIRATION...AND I ALWAYS THINK ITS LOVE..
AND I TEND TO THINK I WANT HER LIFE LONG..
recently,i have been spending money on her..for her personal things..and a mp3 as a gift,i got it for her though she never mentioned that she wants it from me..i just ahd the feel to do it for her,..because of her financial contraints
i have been helping out with her education fund..while im still a student at a university...
im doing all i can for her...
but i think im just destroying myself...
i need a lot of time...to get rid of my thoughts on her..as i have known her for 7 years and been deeply into her past this 3 years..
2006-12-11 21:06:09 · 3 answers · asked by FaTaLe Attraction 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will be easier to admit to urselfthat she is a very good friend u like very much, than denying that she is someone attracting u towards her. Its natural u develop affection towards a person whom u adore and respect and u spent lot of time together. Why not spend ur time with others and start seeing and appreciating new people in life. why not channelise your personal momnets with her in a better way: like do things together which may help a third person, or go for social service together. This will help reduce ur guilt and make use of ur affection-energy to better purposes.
2006-12-11 21:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by sidsct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure of urself first.You are dwindling between loves me or loves me not.It is no use now because he already knows u have a soft corner for him and the fact that he didnt propose marriage to u is making u sink,and now u are feeling better that he is talking to u,but u cant let him go away from u urself because u still have love feelings for him,despite hi smarriage.What u think this realtionship of emotional exchange has in store for both of u?Wake up to the reality that this may meen ur heartbreak or his housebreak,his wife wont be too happy to see him talking to u all the while.Be a woman,grow up,and dont choose the road of breaking ur friend's home now when he is married.You have to firmly tell him to stop talking to u,be direct here.Men are confused if u send mixed signals.
2016-05-23 08:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right.. it is your life no one elses......
2006-12-11 21:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋