2006-12-11 21:07:28 · 21 answers · asked by beaume 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been dating my gf for 10 months now and we haven't had sex and don't plan on it. First of all Sex isn't Love, in most cases. Sex is usually an act of lust between too people. If you really love each other sex will be the last thing that you do. You can just spend time with each other, kiss, hug, snuggle, buy gifts for each other, talk on the phone for hours, and lots of other things. And if your significant other says that you don't love them becuase of not having sex than there is no love there. Just take your time and things will come to your mind that you can do to show your love.
2006-12-11 21:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Garin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT all depends on how you are together. I will give you an example of what i do though.
When my man comes home i sometimes walk to the train station and meet him.
When i know he is going to be home soon i make him a fat mug of hot chocolate.
When he gets out of the bath, i grab loads of towels for him cause he gets chilly when he is cold and i rub him down,
When he sees something he likes on tv, either a cd, a drink, top or even a game, i get it for him and surprise him.
I text him 3 or 4 times a day telling him i am thinking of him and i love him.
When he is ill, i make a major fuss over him.
It all depends on what your other half is like. But you get my drift, if you really want someone to knowthat you love them and that you are true, if it is true and you do love them, then it will show. Promise. xx Goodluck x x
2006-12-12 05:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u show them by not having sex u don't want something to happen where there ends up being a baby accident. u should just tell the how much u love them im sure they know how much u do already u don't need sex to show them i mean im not saying in ur situation this would happen but what if u have sex and he/she left the next day then it really wasn't worth it
2006-12-12 05:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, sex isn't always love, most of the time sex is just lust...
Love is something in your heart, you care for that person, you will almost do anything for that person, and to trust the other person... If you show those 3 things, you will show love, but it needs to be honest feelings.
2006-12-12 05:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
loves not all about sex, sex is just a way of expressing love. I guess only you know deep down when the time is right. You and your partner must be ready.
2006-12-12 12:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by davidleeryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words and actions (other than sex). Sex is an odd thing. You can have sex without being in love but you can't be in love (aside from family and friends) without having sex.
2006-12-12 05:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love comes from the heart, its going out of your way to help him or her.
Sex has nothing to do with love, its just a desire of the human body for reproduction
2006-12-12 05:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell her sincerely that I love her. And I will try to do physical things that people do to prove their love. Sex does not express love as you might already know.
2006-12-12 05:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN to what your partner says and understand and be responsive to it. Show them you are listening and care about what they are saying. It doesn't have to be anything big, they could say that they want to see a movie and you could surprise them with tickets. Little things like that add up.
2006-12-12 05:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean after saying that u like him/her? then the best way is introducing that person to ur frens n family n by this way they will realise that he/she is so important to u n that u r ready for future relationship. also support that person in everything they do n they will automatically understand.
2006-12-12 05:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by gazxz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋