my room mate has a boyfriend and they've been together for a bout 2 yirs now... dat's her longest.... her problem with her boyfriend is that she doesn't find him sweet...but she feels that the guy really loves him. he changed her life.. she used to be a drunkard.. but when she met him..she has changed a lot.. the guy also has made a lot of sacrifice for her..
one time.. she met this cute guy during her vacation.. she was into him and so as the guy.. she finds him sweet and caring...
they've been goin out for quite sometime now without the knowledge of her BF... she just said yes to him last week..
the guy also knows that the gurl already has a boyfriend...
now her problem is that, she loves them both. and can't decide on whom to give up...
the 1st BF has a stable job...and he really loves her..
the other guy is a college student.. the gurl is also a student..
now. who do you think should she give up??? the matured guy or the sweet one?
2006-12-11 21:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by _nakahhidit_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give them both up. If she really loved the stable one she'd never have cheated on him in the first place. Obviously something is missing from the relationship. The "sweet" guy isn't so sweet if he's knowingly is with a girl who's cheating on her man. The relationship is starting all wrong and he'll never be able to truely trust her knowing she was cheating on her last man! Your friend is young, tell her to enjoy herself and be careful. But both of these relationships seemed doomed. Tell her to have fun looking for the next Mr. Right, but tell her PLEASE one man at a time.
2006-12-11 21:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in her place, I would give up the new one. But in this case, she should ask herself what she really wants. She's been through a lot together with her current boyfriend. Wouldn't it be a waste if she just give him up. Besides, he has a stable job. Which means we can see what her future is going to be. But the other guy? How can he still be with her when he knows that she have a boyfriend? Maybe he would leave her for someone else when he's through with the relationship. I dont know, just an opinion.
2006-12-12 05:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should give up the sweet one just becuase he is sweet doesn't mean anything my ex was sweet but he dumped me becuse he liked another grl her bf of 2yrs may not seem that sweet but im sure he does stuff for he and he has a good job. He has also changed her and not many ppl change for others unless they really love them. ppl only change for someone they love and they want to b with. They change because they don't want to lose the person. I would say stay with ur real bf of 2yrs!
2006-12-12 05:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be fooled by a guys sweet talk u better dump the student n gt hold on tight to the mature one. guys like that responsible are very very hard to find nowadays n u will lead a much better life with him. tat guy the colllege one is juz trying to make a record in bed by sweet talking. by the u can talk to the mature guy to be much more sweeter n believ ma if hes that responsible he will surely understand how to handle u n alll u need to do is spend more time with him n assure that u will always be with him then ull c that things can change.
2006-12-12 05:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by gazxz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now thats what i call a big dilemma....if u ask me, i think dat ur friend should go for the earlier guy....this guy's presence actually made a difference in the girl's life...see having a stable job is not only better in the long run but also the guy loves her so much.....whatever she has 4 da sweet guy is just infatuation n maybe it will not last long...what if she dumps dis sweet guy 4 another guy whom she finds gud-luking......
2006-12-12 05:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by miss_p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that she is seeing someone else behind her boyfriend's back speaks a lot about her character. Every relationship is built on trust and committments. She failed the very mandatory rule relationships are built on. How sickening.
What goes around ALWAYS comes around.
2006-12-12 05:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mark L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a bidding war... It might get her some suprising results..No seriously she should just trust her instincts.... But the jobs always a bonus....
2006-12-12 05:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only advice I can give her:
Follow your heart!
2006-12-12 05:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet one...
2006-12-12 05:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not her boyfriend if she feals he is not sweet it can only get worse not better
2006-12-12 05:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by beth l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋