he's been my friend now for 5 years, he was always there when i need him, i know that he has feelings for me eversince... then he went abroad, he's in korea for a year now, he keeps on calling me by phone almost every week or twice a month, & giving me e-mail letter & even send a text message on my mobile.
He is so kind, quite a good looking guy too! then recently he told me his feelings thru phone... i was just glad he wasnt here w/ me when he confessed his true feelings. i'm aware of that even before, i just ignore when his giving me a hint... but now that he told me, i cant even answer his phone calls, i'm trying to avoid his e-mails.
he said he'll wait if i'm ready...but i dont want him to wait!
i dont love him, how should i say it?
i just treat him as friend or more of a brother!
2006-12-11 21:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by ayu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him that. Tell him he's like a brother to you. Don't sugarcoat anything or leave out any important things. [like how my friend turned me down... "I love you." but she conveniently forgot about the "as a friend" part. I had to figure it out for myself.
2006-12-11 21:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Manuel Perez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just treat him as a friend! never let him down...no body knows what its look like in the future..n myb he is the one that stand for you..just..don't leave the relationship..tell him wht u really feel towards him..coz..sometimes true love is the friend who always with u no matter you were up or down...
2006-12-12 05:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by minn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him frankly and honestly about your relationship with him you consider. Let him break once but over a long run, it will be good, close and trustworthy and transparent friendship.
2006-12-12 05:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋