Is rushing to get married worth getting stuck in a bad career?

Answer 1

Wow! A real question!

I've just changed careers too, to be with my loved one, so only time will tell....

Added to my 'watched list'.

Answer 2

No, but they are seperate questions. For marriage and careers always aim for the long term. Will you want to be married to this person in 20 years time? What about when you retire? Will they look after you when you get sick? Will this person get upset if you get a higher paid job than them? What happens if you have to go away for a week or have to work the graveyard shift at work?
Will this job look after you if there is a recession? Will it give you the skills needed so you can change to another career? Is it technology proof (as far as you can foresee)? Can you relocate to another city and get another job?
In the case of careers, you may have to take a job with poor career prospects, but you should regard this as temporary.

Answer 3

You're a child going via a wide variety of hormone alterations, so you are going to come to be with unusual emotions that you simply can not manipulate. That's simply facet of lifestyles, woman. Don't fear approximately that facet. Learn approximately your little frame and all the unusual alterations you're going to be going through in the following few years. Then, you'll take extra medical and cynical view of what you're going via. If you'll keep off for a couple of weeks, you'll paintings yourway via the CHEMICAL facet of the equation. In the imply-time, if you are relatively severe approximately no longer hooking up, then preclude getting concerned, which could spice up the PEA again into complete cycle for one more couples of months. (Though that does sound like a lonely lifestyles you are making plans.) Honestly, although, it's larger to gain knowledge of approximately relationships (NOT intercourse) now. You must begin finding out easy methods to spot the men that deal with you the way in which you select, alternatively of later willingly being drawn to idiots which will deal with you badly. Case in factor. When I was once going to university for my RN, I was once 39 years ancient (and surely no longer the oldest there), however I was once nonetheless seeing tons of immaturity within the lady round me. One of my magnificence-associates was once a 37-12 months ancient Korean American that also idea that Mr. Right needed to be Mister Perfect Prince Charming. No topic how good a man could deal with her and feature ordinary pursuits to her, she'd flip him down only for being below 6 foot tall. (Why could a little bit quick Korean be obsessive about having a person close to an entire foot taller?) She was once 37, unmarried, had no youngsters, was once divorced (after simplest 7 months, I suppose) and nonetheless had no clue as to what inner traits she could must discover in a person to make a courting final with him.--- To me, that is only a real unhappy drawback, for anyone that ancient to nonetheless be residing lifestyles below the assumptions and expectancies of a few teenie-bopper child. She'll most probably be in her fifties earlier than she is mature sufficient to draw a well guy. The deal is, should you like this child and he's a well boy, then speak to him. There's no damage in a having alittle phone courting and striking out at eating places recreation parties and libraries in combination. There's no damage in a little bit percent at the lips and tongue motion (facial simplest). There's no damage in exploring your feelings and emotions in a process that's managed and directed by way of self-appreciate. Now, if he is a foul man, then preserve your distance. Find out what form of man he's, what form of rep he has, what forms of main issue he could have got into, and so on, and so on, and so on., as good as what different relationships he can have been in and the way the ones ended. That form of information might truthfully be sufficient to make your logical brain over-rule your emotional one. The factor is, do what you must do to advertise self-appreciate, even as alos studying approximately the arena earlier than it's too overdue. You recognize what I'm announcing?

Answer 4

This is a very good question. I did and now I regret it. I wasted my life marrying the girl I thought would remain with me forever, but we are now divorced and she has found a bf to replace me. It is as if we never knew one another and she is having the time of her life and I am SOL.

Answer 5

it depends, if you think your love for someone is really worth sacrificing your career.. then go for it.

but, i think its impractical.. since you will be stuck, then how will you make your life happier.. both of you will suffer then..

don't rush... think a bout it and weigh things out..

Answer 6

OMG NO NO NO!!!!!! Please listen: This exact same thing happened to me 17 years ago. Now not only am I divorced, but I'm 42 years old and stuck in a career that I absolutely HATE. Please re-think things. You don't want this to happen to you.

Answer 7

Huh? Rushing for what reason....I'd say no. Getting "stuck" is choice I'd say.

Answer 8

a step at a time. worthy or not is beyond anyone's judgement.

Answer 9

NO Not really. i'd wait on the marriage

Answer 10

when you are single you prove your love daily.when you are married you are obligated