ok so my boyfriend dumped me cause i didnt kiss him yet. but before i tell you anything- hes the first one to say that he wanted our first kiss to be special, so he said at the dance coming up. then two days later he was begging me saying i cant wait no more i want the kiss now. and so i said no im sticking to what you said in the first place. then 3 days later he dumps me over that and now he wants to go out with his slutty exgirlfriend that cheats on him when they go out and he knows it too! i love him soo much and he just broke my heart. what should i do? should i make him jelous at the dance? im all confused right now. please help me and tell me what i should do and dont be an a$$whole about it!
2006-12-11 06:01:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's all confused and his hormones are thinking for him again. Just play it cool. I'd just get another date for the dance, not so much to make him jealous (you never wanna get called on for doing that) but to have fun and live your life. If he sees that, he might really feel stupid. That's how he should feel after all. :)
2006-12-11 06:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mama R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all...you do not LOVE this guy. You're probably too young to know what love is, if you're going to a dance. Guys his age want action, that's my explanation for him getting back with his ex. GO TO THE DANCE and have a GREAT time with your friends or at least pretend to be having fun if he's watching, no matter how hard it may be. Totally ignore this guy. You'll find there will be many "stepping stones" (guys) until you finally find Mr. Right and look back on this and see that moving on was the right thing...but this guy is Mr. Wrong. Good luck.
2006-12-11 06:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kimber 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, sounds like you haven't been with him very long and that leads me to ask how can you say you love him? If a guy can't take NO for the answer on a kiss what else can't he take NO to as the answer? Sounds like to me that this guy is no good. You don't want to be in a relationship where this guy is constantly pressuring you to do stuff that you don't want to do. I would just let him go and not worry about him, sounds to me that you are young and if that is the case, there are too many guys out there to be worrying over this punk of a kid.
2006-12-11 06:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by PNutty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He must was a very desperate BOY. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. Evidently you are not worth waiting for to him. If he knows his ex is cheating, then he doesnt care about her either. He just going around getting girls to fall in love with him because he knows if he wanna come back to you and whomever else that he has a great chance in doing so. So at the dance, yes. Make him jealous and see how he reacts to it. If he reacts violently, dont ever say a word to him again. If he comes over and try to talk to you in a calm and mannerable way, then talk to him. Tell the other guy its nothig between you and your ex just in case what your ex is telling you is a game and you will still have the new guy.
2006-12-11 06:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by jbooggal15 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a real loser. I know it hurts to be rejected but the best thing you can do is just move forward and not get all wrapped up in his childish games. Go and have fun at that dance and even though it maybe hard act like he doesn't bother you at all. If you try to make him jealous or cause a seen, you give him more importance than he deserves. Good luck!!
2006-12-11 06:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one... You are better off with out him! Any guy that is going to dump over that is not worth your time! For two.. go to the dance, with someone else or your friends have fun and IGNORE him! This will show him that you are strong and he made a terrible mistake! In time trust me you will get over him! But for now do not let him know you are aching! Just have fun. Good luck! You deserve better!
2006-12-11 06:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a waste of space but if you wanted to make him jelous then kiss his mate or some one else you like before or at the dance and see if he comes back to you, other wise find some one better.
2006-12-11 06:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's the point in making him jealous at the dance? Get over the fact that he dumped you because you did not kiss him..you showed him that you are a good girl..now, if you kiss another guy at the dance, what does that make you...?
2006-12-11 06:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be a good idea to make him jealous, but it could start up a fist fight too so be careful. Sence you two came to an agreement with the 1st kiss and he wanted to break that commitment then that shows you he doesn't have much patience for you or your relationship.
2006-12-11 06:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Go to that dance thing and make sure you look totally hot and confidence is key and then completely ignore him but not in an obvious way, maybe even get some of his friends to be like wow she's hot or something, then he'll probably regret doing that...
2006-12-11 06:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋