2006-12-11 05:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because you have to love them in a different way. When I say that I don't mean that you love your boyfriend or husband more than your family or vice versa. It's just a different type of love. You love your boyfriend or husband with a love that is intimate and very personal. This same love can't be applied to every other member of your family. It's all love in the end, and as long as it's going around fairly that's all that matters.
2006-12-11 06:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We aren't supposed to. I tell my husband all the time that I love the kids as much as him but in a completely different way.
2006-12-11 06:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are four different kinds of love.
Eros is the Greek (ἔρως) word for (especially) romantic or sexual love.
"Philia" (Greek: φιλíα) in Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics is usually translated "friendship",[1] though in fact his use of the term is rather broader than that. As Gerard Hughes points out, in Books VIII and IX Aristotle gives examples of philia including: "young lovers (1156b2), lifelong friends (1156b12), cities with one another (1157a26), political or business contacts (1158a28), parents and children (1158b20), fellow-voyagers and fellow-soldiers (1159b28), members of the same religious society, or of the same dining club (1160a19), or of the same tribe (1161b14), a cobbler and the person who buys from him (1163b35)."[2]
Agapē (IPA: [ɑˈgɑ.pε] or IPA: [ˈɑgɑˌpε]) (Gk. αγάπη ), is one of several Greek words meaning love. The word has been used in different ways by a variety of contemporary and ancient sources, including Biblical authors. Many have thought that this word represents divine, unconditional, self-sacrificing, active, volitional, thoughtful love.
Storgē (from the Greek στοργή) is the word for familial love, such as the love of a parent toward a child. In social psychology, storgē is form of loving evolved from friendship.
2006-12-11 06:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 reasons.
1. You choose to be with your bf/husbands. You're forced to be with family. Family can be very annoying and often times you wouldn't choose to be around them if they weren't family.
2. You don't get hot lovin' from your family the same way you do from your man. Well, at least I hope you don't.
2006-12-11 06:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are so many different ways to love. example/ i love my dad and mom with all my heart. however, i don't plan on ever sleeping with them or it would make us incest and perverted. never crossed my mine until your question. my boyfriend or husband is a different love. physical,emotional, sexual. no i don't have two just an example. love for children is a great love and far most important to me. love of a child brings great joy to ones heart and life. its a protection for them as well. no one will hurt them. as well as my grandchild. i love him like my grown children because he has their blood in them as well as mine and i see the child i raised in his eyes. so love is used in so many ways and abused as well in so many ways. so why are you asking my friend?
2006-12-11 06:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i experience for you. Your husband appears like a selfish jerk and a mama's boy. you gained't understand this now, yet some day you'll, that any guy who ought to provide up his spouse and his personal toddlers to be including his mom, etc... isn't properly worth having. enable's see how a lot he misses you and his toddlers now that you're lengthy gone. do not anticipate him to come back decrease back and that i'm prepared to wager you, he's taking section in video games with you. He figures if he leaves the toddlers and spouse, you receives scared and also you may see issues his way and bypass decrease back and he may have his mom and father, sister and pals AND his spouse and toddlers. you does not conform to do what he needed, so now he's putting you into this difficulty to emphasize you to grant in and elements him his way. this is as a lot as you in case you opt for to be a married to a selfish human being, who in elementary words cares about what he needs and desires and he's prepared to smash you and the toddlers as a fashion to get it. what's going to he do to you and the toddlers next? assume you and the toddlers to stay including his mom and father, because he desires them with techniques from his section 24/7? with any luck you've a job and ought to help your self and the toddlers. you could ensure to play the waiting recreation and stand your floor and by no skill enable him to regulate you and discover out who he ignored the most. His kinfolk and pals after he replaced into faraway from them for lower than 3 days once you moved to a distinct state or you and the toddlers after he moved decrease back and he hasn't considered you for some weeks. with techniques from then he will comprehend you're literally not giving in and also you may comprehend in case you nonetheless opt for him decrease back. i am going to not help wondering if he planned this from the start. get rid of the spouse and toddlers with techniques from shifting them to a distinct state, then 3 days later, say he can not stay without his different kinfolk and pals and unload you and the toddlers and bypass himself decrease back residing house. Now you're in yet another state and out of his way. is this plausible??? good luck and that i wish you'd be able to come back to the right decision. only be affected human being and picture this out very carefully, previously you ensure what you opt for to do.
2016-11-30 10:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have a real q to ask?if u wanna love ur parents like u love ur bf go ahead.but would u have sex with ur kid?i dont think so.........
2006-12-11 06:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex. that the only differents between any of them.
2006-12-11 06:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by sweetlittlerowanandmia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because then it would be illegal ever heard of incest?
2006-12-11 05:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋