I've been friends with this guy for almost 2 years now and i dated him for 2 weeks like 4 weeks ago,we broke up because my cousin and his cousin (bestfriends) were'nt happy i was dating him. but we still both really like eachother and want to be together.i'm 13 he is 16.well i started dating this other guy when i stopped talking to my ex for a couple weeks.well when i stopped talking to my ex and was dating another guy.i'm 13 and he's 17. i realized how much i wanted to be with him and how much i loved him. so i broke up with the new boyfriend and me and my ex are back together...now my ex's sister wants to beat me up and my ex is calling me a slut and everything but i'm not i usually couldn't careless what people think but this is really hurting me because i hate when people call me a s-l-u-t....
i'm really mature for my age.that's why i date older guys because i don't like immature young annoying guys!
Any suggestions???
2006-12-11 06:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by That girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i know i'm young but i really like this boy.he means like everything to me.we see eachother everyday from 4PM-11:30PM every day accept on weekends then he sleeps over my house.
i hate when people say i'm to young because my mom and dad have been together since they were 13 and 16.... and you're never to young to love.
2006-12-11 06:18:47 · update #1
Also i'm not a virgin (which i'm not proud of) it was with my boyfriend when we were just friends the day after my birthday. so please don't give me this stupid stuff like ''you're to young'' or ''your only 13''....it's to late now.
2006-12-11 06:20:52 · update #2
ok babe this is A VERY GOOD QUESTION TO ASK!!!!! you love the guy you hate that you werent with him and everyone isint happy because you are with him now right, so think of it this way he loves you, i assume, and you love him right, so dont give a **** if his sister dosent like ya'll going out and about your ex calling you a slut i can tell you right now that you are not because most "sluts" dont have the emotion that you have you are a nice person i can tell you that you shouldnt care for anyone elses feelings but your own i hope this helps if you need any more advice contact me at necrocrisis66@yahoo.com
2006-12-11 06:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Marukka S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I know that being a 13 year old sometimes makes you think that you know all there is too know however, you truly don't. I am a mother of a daughter who is 11 and if at 13 she was dating a 17 yr old, Id have a fit! He is way more mature than you are and you shouldn't be in this type of a dilemma at this age anyhow, however since you asked the question I should respond. I think that basically in regards to the name calling you should just ignore it. People will call you all sorts of names from now until the day you die whether it be good ones or bad ones they will be there. You must ignore it and sometimes by doing that it hurts the other worst. I'm sure your mother has told you that many times. Besides why would the sister of the ex wanna beat you up? Its truly not her concern so Id just ignore it. Please think about the age thing, its a big scary world out there as an adult but for a child too look at it as though it weren't believe me, It is very much. Don't place yourself in an adult situation at such a young age.
2006-12-11 14:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mariachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 13...as mature as you think you are, you're still barely a teenager...enjoy being a kid for a few more years...when it's over, it's over forever...dating can wait until around 16 or so...prior to that, it's totally inappropriate...
2006-12-11 14:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol. It seems that your severe interest in older guys represents that you want to grow up faster than you're supposed to. Take a break from dating guys for a while and think about why you're going around doing that to yourself. Yes?
2006-12-11 14:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's their problem if they can't handle the truth... I mean you shouldn't let anyone stop you especially when it comes to love... And next time try not to do that... Just a word of advice...
2006-12-11 14:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant give you any advice because you have already let people in your business and ruin something good. Sometimes when you have something good no one wants you to have it.... so they will try and f*** it up. Well I wouldn't let them if I were you and try to get my man back....
2006-12-11 14:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13 you have plenty of time to worry about all the boyfriends or girlfriend you will have in your life.
2006-12-11 14:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlittlerowanandmia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha! 13? go back to ur barbies little one
2006-12-11 14:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋