I met this guy before i started dating my ex. My ex and I were best friends, now he wants nothing to do to me. The new guy was not the cause of my break up. Should he be punished for the sake of my ex? Or should I go for it? If I should, does it matter that he lives thousands of miles away?
2006-12-11 05:55:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you date a guy who lives thousands of miles away?
2006-12-11 05:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this dude is not the cause of the breakup, you are free to do whatever because your concious wont eat you up. But the best thing to do is wait awhile and just have friends. You need time to recooperate from your old relationship. Friends are the only thing you need, not a boyfriend. And no, dont punish the new dude for what your boyfriend did because all men wont be like him. If you punish him, no other man will want you because you are gonna treat every man like that. Take my advice.
2006-12-11 06:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by jbooggal15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are using him as a "rebound" guy, then it might be a little unfair to him. However, if you really want to go out with him, then go for it. If you truly care about each other then distance shouldn't matter. I have two friends, one lives in Canada, and the other lives in North Carolina. They went out for like 3 years, then got engaged. So it IS possible to have long distance relationships. There just has to be a large level of trust between you two.
2006-12-11 06:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Vaynthe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong to date a guy that is out of town. But I do say this, long distance relationships don't last very long. Unless you two work it out to together. I see nothing wrong with dating out of state. Just make sure you two have a plan.
2006-12-11 05:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your ex just cut you off like that for no reason, then don't even worry about him. Get to know the new guy, go out with him if you want. Just ask yourself if you can do a long distance relationship.
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2006-12-11 05:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at first, you at the instant are not being "elementary" by using desirous to this element, and he could not think of that approximately you. i might provide him a raffle, a minimum of he instructed you somewhat of status you up on the night....yet while he retains cancelling, i might say in all likelihood provide up on him. In answer on your final question "why do adult males injury dates?" - in my view i've got on no account broken a date, and none of my male acquaintances ever have. In my adventure a woman is a lot greater in all likelihood to interrupt a date out of stress or regardless of alternative reason, i don't think of many adult males rather injury dates. And it feels like he had a reason, so do not think of too badly of him - a minimum of he's motivated to do his artwork, so he's in all likelihood to be a responsible form of guy who's properly worth going out with.
2016-10-18 02:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to money to visit him every week, I don't see why not. If you don't, and can't anyways, then what's the point if you can't see him more than once a month?
You should lay low for a while, stay away from guys.
2006-12-11 05:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Distance should not matter at this point. If things progress, it might become an issue.
2006-12-11 05:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with moving on. Keep in mind though that long distance relationships usually don't work.
2006-12-11 05:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and your new quy should not suffer, every one moves on in the end and sometimes people move on quicker than others.
If you think your redy to move on, then why not, and distance does not matter.
2006-12-11 05:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋