This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her, but only has a friend. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.
2006-12-11 05:59:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really can't tell you what she's thinking (a lot of times girls don't even really know what they want) My guess is that she probably likes you, but has to play it cool in front of her friends.
The best thing to do? Ignore her. I mean, still be nice and say hi to her, but that's all. Then start hanging out with other girls.
Best case scenario? You make her jealous and she comes running to you.
And the worst? You forget about her when you're flirting with other girls and one of those works out!
Either way, you win. Girls don't like guys that are too easy.
2006-12-11 06:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by JbirdUVT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, I don't really have much knowledge on these things but I think she's doing those things to get your attention and the reason why she told her friend that you're annoying her is that she does'nt want them to know... And I think she's got the hots for you... Oh and if your a serious kinda guy and you're now falling for her try and aviod so you won't get hurt cuz' there's a huge chance that she's only playing...
2006-12-11 06:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She's playing childish games. If people don't know when another person likes them, then it's their loss. Plus, she probably flirts with you to keep her mind off her boyfriend who probably is a jerk if she needs to flirt with someone else. Find a girl who is interested in you.
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2006-12-11 06:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are actually VERY confusing. trust me. I know from PERSONAL experience.
i think the best way for you to go is to just play it cool like you were doing. you dont want to make a fool of yourself and start anything up with her boyfriend. if she seems to want to be around you more often and to get closer, remind her that she has a boyfriend and you dont want to interfere with that relationship. even if she starts to get really close, remind her about her boyfriend and tell her that you respect that relationship. she will then see that you are a respectable guy and might actually want to be with you.
2006-12-11 06:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by jane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like the typical "playing hard to get" girl. Its the lamest thing in the world, and Im sorry that you are experiencing it. She wants you to think of her, and flirt, but turn you down and talk smack..you poor poor guy. You may like her, but I would just move on...find another girl, that deserves your attention.
2006-12-11 06:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 17 maximum women folk do not understand what they choose and have a distinctive boyfriend each and each week if she flirts with you possibly she is attempting to verify in case you would be the subsequent one in case you do celebration i does not plan on being that way long because of the fact at 17 she would be in a position to pass on quickly additionally she likes the attention she gets by using flirting all females do.
2016-10-18 02:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves the attention. It makes her feel attractive but she doesn't want you to cross the line and start making her uncomfortbale. I would start flirting with someone else who doesn't have a boyfriend.
2006-12-11 06:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there youre playing with fire mate she has a b/f and this will blow up in youre face keep her as friends and take it no further she is very young and trying to impress her mates ,wait til you can get her on her on and tell her that you only want to be mates
2006-12-11 06:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's being a little immature for a 17 year old. which means you shouldn't even try and get involved with her....
good luck
2006-12-11 06:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by britt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's incredibly immature, even for 17, and you could do better.
2006-12-11 06:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Erika B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋