2006-12-11 05:49:37 · 22 answers · asked by Gdogg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband would disagree
2006-12-11 05:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's just not even true. I had fun dating "bad" boys, but when I was ready to get married, I went looking for a good guy. I found one, thank goodness. Nice guys are not always the ones beautiful women date when they are really young, but they are exactly the kind of guy they want to marry and raise a family with. So hang in there.
2006-12-11 13:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most of the beautiful woman have been somehow mistreated and all they know how to do is to get involved with the losers who will continue the mistreatment. Sooner or later, some of these women wake up from the mistreatment routine and make strong efforts to find the "good guys." In the meantime though, I know how annoying it can be; you're in good company. The trick is to get to a point where you're totally content with life and then somehow the girls start popping up. Hang in there.
2006-12-11 13:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by davemanroth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nice guy, and I got a very pretty wife so that isn't true at all. The girls that you want, (the pretty popular ones) are usually the most insecure people on the planet. So compliment them constantly, and make them believe thier own hype, and they will be putty in your hands. The only trick is that you need to have confidence in yourself because females can smell a faker, and if they can tell, they will take advantage of you so be carefull
2006-12-11 13:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women are attracted to the "dangerous" types, the rebels, the bad boys. I think it goes back to basic primitive genetic impulses. All living animals want to have sex with a mate that they find most fertile (if you're looking for a woman) or virile (if you're looking for a man), to increase the chances of successful reproduction.
We now know better - in our heads - but we're still fighting against ancient powerful instinct.
The counter argument to that might be that a woman's instinct is to find a nurturing, loving male that will "provide" for her offspring and protect them. Hmmm. Not sure which is right.
Maybe they're both bullshi*! lol
2006-12-11 13:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between being a "nice guy" and being a total wimp! saying yes to everythin, agreeing to everything, letting women ride all over you and get away with whatever is not being nice, putting up with there sob stories on all the abusive cheating guys they are with as you sit there wondering why she wont give you the time of day isnt being nice. It is being a wimp. MAN UP!!! A guy can be "nice" but at the same time ASSERTIVE, SURE OF HIMSELF and SELF CONFIDENT, without acting like a rug were women wipe their shoes.
2006-12-11 13:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love nice guys. i cant stand the bad boys. I dont know if im beautiful but ive been told im a 8 out of 10. A lot of the ppl that ppl think are beautiful are useing their beautiy as power. power gets to ppls heads. in turn those ppl are popular and are jerks. Im anti-popular
2006-12-11 13:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Katie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally because it takes women a couple years to figure out they don't want the bad boy anymore. The one that treats them badly. They eventually figure out they want the nice guy they passed up all the time when they were young. This sucks if you're a young man though. Just takes time I guess.
2006-12-11 13:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They dont. Thats what i used to think but now I am in a relationship with the most beautiful woman in the entire world right now and we have been together for 10 months and i can tell that she the one for me. Just hold strong, be yourself, you will find someone who you think is beautiful for you.
2006-12-11 13:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan Marcel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm thinking where are all the nice guys? not that i'm beautiful but i really wonder if men know the definition of what a man should be and not talking sexually. there just are no more of the nice guys around anymore.
2006-12-11 14:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not always true, but usually the "bad boy" is perceived to have more hormones etc. and women are always more attracted to "Alpha" males (that is until they want some "nice" guy to marry and raise the illegitimate bastards she had with the Alpha male).
2006-12-11 13:53:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋