iv known this guy for about a year now.i don't see him very often 1 a week if that and we don't talk much. i didn't really find him attractive,id go to the pub with my mates and meet him and all his mates there. We would have a laugh and stuff and that was about it and he's always offer to give me a lift home but always dropped me off last :s. him and his mates are always joking about and this guy always like oh id do you or you know asking me question if i think he's hot. but i know he's only messing cause there all like that. Lately over the pat few months i really can not stop thinking about him he's ALWAYS on my mind. i admit i do find him a little attractive but thats only cause iv got to know him but i don't see him as a bf cause that would just be weird.when i read stuf like 12signs ur falling in love i thinking about him.i can't possibly be in love with him i don't know him that well.+he's got a gf but he's always flirting with me & when he txt me i he puts a smile on my face.
2006-12-11 05:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know some peopel are liek ur falling for him but argh i don't think it's like that i mean he's a col guy and a cool mate but were not like really close cause i don't see him that much.
and i know what he's like he's a player but this guy is WAY WAY out of my league.
and i don't wanna even think about try anything with him cause he's got a girlfriend.
But that doesn't seem to bother him that much ....he's seems a bit cocky and things but really he's a nice guy. sometimes i really wanna just jump across the table and start making out with him lol ....but i don't think i want him as a boyfriend or anything more than friends. does that sound bad.
2006-12-11 06:02:58 · update #1
Did you see "When Harry Met Sally?"
You like this guy, Go with it.
2006-12-11 05:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by bettysdad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i have a situation like idential to yours. i know exactly how this feels. I dnt fancy my best mate at all but i think bout him loads and we are very close and talk nearly everyday. I think i best thing 2 do is let nature tke its course and follow ur instint. dicuss it with if if u think things are going further. ignore comments from other ppl, only u no how u feel inside.
2006-12-11 15:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by nicky s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like it or not, you are interested in him for more than a friend. Flirt back, and try to get to know him better. Maybe he will get rid of the GF and ask you out. Go for it.
2006-12-11 14:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by hopelessmhs87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Signs point to you falling for him. Hard. Talk to either him or your friends and try to meet a new guy if yours is unavailable. Good luck!
2006-12-11 13:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by retooser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because...you like him! LOL Simple ;)
2006-12-11 13:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Alyssa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋