we have a child together but have been apart for 4 yrs ( i live in CA and he lives here en CHILE) he found a girlfriend and is having a baby with her .....
2006-12-11 05:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by chachi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't think hes grown up yet.....he may have feelings for you but if he really loved you why did he leave you with a baby....and for him saying he loves his g/f....and pregnant....well maybe he needs to learn how to use the word...
2006-12-11 05:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what it means is that he loved you with all his heart, but since you guys are not together all the time he found someone else that lives and Chile and can be near him whenever he wants her too...
Don't be mad at him, just know that this is the best so that down the road if this relationship did last you would not go visit him and find out that way that he had someone else.
2006-12-11 05:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by aerbanks2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that neither one of you really knows what love is and are using the word when some other word should be used. I suggest that you both read in the Bible I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" to find out what love is and isn't. Love is patient and kind and it doesn't seek its own way at the expense of others. It is such that if you truly love someone, you will willingly lose your life to save another's life. From what you have written, I doubt that either of you really has this kind of love for each other. You can develop it though, if you both commit to it and try hard to obtain it. If your "boyfriend" won't commit solely to you, I suggest you go to a Bible believing church and try to find someone else who will follow what the Bible says about love.
2006-12-11 06:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may "love" you because of the tie between the two of you with the child. I say "I love you" to everyone that I care about. There are so many different forms of love. Try to move on and get your life back on track. Good Luck!
2006-12-11 05:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be telling you what you want to hear but he seems not to know the real meaning of saying I love you. Maybe he is just using the phrase to see what he can get. I would be careful
2006-12-11 05:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's a cheater. Dump him. Your child needs a better father and you deserve a better man.
2006-12-11 06:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by servinggodalone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he loves both of you. The real question is, who does he love more?
2006-12-11 05:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the same thing happened to me but now I know that I really did loose him I don't get it either I think that he doesn't know what he wants and thinks he if I can have both then why not!lol...
Good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 05:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is confused let him go. the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence until you get over it. he will learn and find out. in the meantime you get out and mingle with your friends. love will come again let love find you. thanks
2006-12-11 05:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't know what he wants.... if you can you need to talk with him and see what he wants to do.... that way you know where you need to head your life either with him or with someone else.. I hope all turns out the way you want it to
2006-12-11 05:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋