That us women arent visually stimulated during sex. That its all emotional for the woman and that we dont LOVE porn. And that we dont fantasize(and often) that we dont use pretend people or pornography to help us along or just to view w/o masterbating. As though its not natural for us women to look at a man and imagine what his package looks like or for bi/les women that we dont look at a woman and imagine the same things. Why some men "hide" their porn when just maybe were hiding our own. Men arent women so they arent expected o fully know these things but what about women? Fantasies aside,being faithful is where the commitment comes in. Dont want the same meal everynight? Dont get married! Stay single,have your variety w/o dragging someone down. There are PLEANTY of ez slutz out there.
These "natural fantasies" are supposed to stay fantasies unless both people want to make them happen.
Very happily married with kids. Lots of great sex. No straying.
2006-12-11 05:53:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It IS a question. I want to know why ppl think this BS. Are there THAT many more fridgid women out there than I realized?
2006-12-11 06:05:14 · update #1
It IS a question. I want to know why ppl think this BS. Are there THAT many more fridgid women out there than I realized?
2006-12-11 06:05:26 · update #2
From what I recall, when researchers show men and women porn, a lot more women say they are not aroused.
When they test for physical signs of arousal, there's not much differance.
I think men are more accepting of what turns them on. No guy would sit there with an erection and say 'that doesn't turn me on'. But apparently there are women who get physically arounsed yet say they are disgusted. I mean, maybe they are disgusted, but whatever.
I'd guess there are more frigid women then you think, but more significantly, there are more women who have a problem with porn then you think.
2006-12-12 04:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it not just be wonderful if all women thought as you do? There are a lot of people walking around with unresolved sexual abuse issues, for one, both men and women. That complicates sex. A lot. This is probably one of the major causes of sexual disfunction there is. So it may explain why a lot of men -and women- stray and why there is a lot "frigidity" with both sexes. It is true. Don't take my word for it. Look up the stats.
2006-12-11 06:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finally a woman who admits to like pornography!
I love pornography but it's so hard to find in litter bins, everyone's keeping theirs, unless a mother or girlfriend finds the stash and throws it away.
Do you wanna watch some together?
2006-12-11 06:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Derek K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Glad to hear it, but there are many women who do think that way, or at least are constantly telling men that women feel that way (hence causing women and men to believe it).
2006-12-11 06:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that nothing should be hidden. If you like porn you should make sure your soon to be spouse is ok with it.
btw not into porn.
2006-12-11 05:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because some tell us that there not into that so we take their word for it. But in the end you see what's real.
2006-12-11 06:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are correct. Stay faithful.
2006-12-11 05:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree
2006-12-11 05:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you completly
2006-12-11 06:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by A G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's your point.
2006-12-11 06:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋