my ex boyfriend called me on my bday and said that he hasent forgoten about me that he misses me and wants to be back with me.Even though am going out with somebody he says that he luvs me ,he calles me more than my *****...But my boyfriend is like any girl would wish her guy to be,he bought me a gold ring with 4 diamonds and in the inside of the ring it said i love you baby ..what sould i do i mean am not sure if i already forgot about my ex and am not sure if i really love my *****....they r both the same but only one is 4 me
2006-12-11 05:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the ex just wants some *** again.....
2006-12-11 05:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by drockfreak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well all i can say is that you shouldn't leave your bf if you love him. Love is not about gold rings we all know that (well most of us) but i'm sure you said it only as an example. He says he loves you and misses you badly. It's true no doubt about it... but if you're with a guy you love, don't break a beautiful relationship to go back to one that was once broken. It can be an option when you both a re single and miss and love each other. but i don't think the trade would be fair to your bf who's all a girl could want. It's always a hard decision... i live it, i know it! Good luck whatever you decide!
2006-12-11 13:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is an ex for a reason. I have gone through the same thing with ex boyfriends. They always seem to come out of the blue at the most inconvenient times. My suggestion would be for you to evaluate the relationship you are in now before you get involved with the ex or anyone else. If your not happy maybe you should ask yourself why. I would also ask why the ex is calling now. Is he at some low point so he came running to you. Finally sometimes it is better to be by yourself insted of settling just so you are not alone.
2006-12-11 14:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation. I was in a similar situation about a year ago, except I texted my ex boyfriend to wish him a happy birthday and then he started calling me. I broke up with my boyfriend at the time and went back with my ex. Best decision I ever made. Although they were BOTH great and soo giving, tons of fun to be around....II went with my gut feeling and went back with my ex. I would say you need to make a decision quick though, you don't want to lead your current boyfriend on while your still thinking and talking to you ex, that just isn't fair. If they are both good guys, the one you don't pick should understand!
Good Luck!!
2006-12-11 13:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are this confused then you need to give the ring back and tell him you're having doubts. Go see the ex and decide how you feel but don't cheat, don't lie and don't be decieving. Be honest with them both.
2006-12-11 13:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're ex-boyfriend is an "ex" for a reason. And it you are currently dating someone, then you shouldn't be talking to your ex.
2006-12-11 13:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that you need to decide for yourself. You have to see how you feel about each of them individually. This is a question that we cannot answer for you.
2006-12-11 13:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself WHY he's an ex and that should help you.
Remember...Guys RARELY change and if they say they have, usually it's a lie.
2006-12-11 13:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
then you pick the one for you as you already know what you want. give him the ring back should you leave him its only proper.
2006-12-11 13:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by shiznick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with your boyfriend, why break his heart to go backwards in life and get with your ex in life you have to move foward to get anywhere.
2006-12-11 13:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋