ok, the other day i was really depressed and i wrote a bunch of poems for this girl i like that goes on my bus, we've been talking as friends and she knows i like her...but idk if she likes me
should i give her the poems? the poems are bout how i feel for her and wat she means to me...
and if i give them to her, what do i say b4 i hand the poems to her?
plz i need help wit this
thanks
2006-12-11 05:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you should! go for it man! Women love romance! she will probably feel awkward at first but she will know that you really like her. Just say, "I want you to read this", or Open this when you get home" You don't want her blabbing to all the friends,
2006-12-11 05:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her the poem!!!!!!!!!!!
No guy has ever GOTTEN a girl thru poems.
It may work in movies but not in real world.
You need to make yourself a mysterious type - the kind she has to figure out about. If you pour out all your deepest feelings for her without even going on a date - really dating first, any normal girl will she you as a LOSER. A needy person, even perhaps as a Psycho.
Save the poem thing for later, when you to are going out together as b/f and g/f. Then, there would be a reason for you to write them, she will think. If you give them now, she will see you as a crazy person. And why not? So you two talked and now you are head over heels b/c of that. Be for real.
If you really must, Best way would be to ask her if she likes them b/c you want to give it to someone special and you want another girl's opinion.
She'll feel honored you are asking for her opinion.
She'll say after reading, you are sweet, not crazy psycho.
She'll say things like, oh I wish someone did that for me...etc.
Wait, couple weeks and tell her you and your someone special broke up. She'll remember, how nice you treat girls with poems and would probably want to go out with you.
Take this advice and go do it.
2006-12-11 05:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing here is to go slowly. You don't want to (a) scare her off or (b) embarass yourself. I would first see if she seems receptive to your affection. Tell her something like you enjoy her friendship and wonder ifthere could be more between you. Or if you are too shy for that, give her one poem. You can always give her more later if she likes it. Consider that you don't know her very well yet, and how you would feel if you shared all of these personal things so early, and she does not feel the same.
2006-12-11 05:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by akamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd expect her to be surprised... but I guess she will be flattered!
I'd try to find a comfortable moment and perhaps pass her one. See how she responds and then... well, take it from there.
...or... if you fancy a dare, say, before you jump out of the bus, hand them to her and say, oh, I don't know, "these are for you" and wink at her. That way she's left wondering and next time you see her, depending on her response, you'll know.
Good luck Romeo!
2006-12-11 05:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by sirinae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing we need is for her to think you're a wierdo.
I suggest to save them up possibly for the near future, and ask her out.
Women may like romance, but deep down inside they're horny as us and may not like poems.
2006-12-11 05:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her like i wrote this for u and that i like u and i want to go out with u some time
2006-12-11 05:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her "Here is my heart" and then give them to her. Or just give them to her without saying anything.
2006-12-11 05:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No., but you should talk to her and see if there is any way you could be a couple.
2006-12-11 05:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give them to Golden Showers Angel !
He/she will give it up for you then !
2006-12-11 05:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by freaknastygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have talent lets do this ~!you can start with 'this is a present for you' of course u can send her on birthday or christmas~~!
2006-12-11 05:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋