Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Is it possible for porn companies to charge my boyfriend's credit card without him using the services??
He had a membership in the past and says they are still billing him despite not using and cancelling the membership???

2006-12-11 04:53:04 · 6 answers · asked by Its me!!! :) 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys realy care about the size of their Package!

2006-12-11 04:52:53 · 34 answers · asked by Lil' Momma 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 years old and, despite my best attempts, have not been able to find a girl willing to go out with me in over eighteen months. Furthermore, prior to this, only one girl has ever found me to be worthy of becoming more then just good friends.

Having read many books on the topic, and attempted to do everything possible to get a girl to like me, I'm starting to suspect that the source of my failing lies elsewhere. While it doesn't bother me, I was born with a condition called "Cauliflower Ear" where the ear, in my case my right ear, forms as a shriveled nub. In order to allow me to hear, this nub had to be amputated, leaving me with a small hold and no ear [prosthetics aren't covered under insurance].

I'm starting to suspect that evolution has trained women to identify individuals with obvious genetic defects, such as myself, and to ignore us.

While such a trait would ensure the health of humanity, it ensures that people like myself remain alone.

Is this true???

2006-12-11 04:52:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know if its just me or not.. maybe i haven't had enough relationships to actually be a judge of this.. but it seems to me that some people can't be single.. they are in a relationship.. leave that one and jump right into the next one.. and so on and so..

they havent' had much time to be "single" and to learn more about themselves...

do you enjoy the single life.. ? what are you favorite parts about it..? what do you hate? why do you suppose people have to have a never ending stream of relationships without learning more about themselves?

2006-12-11 04:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends, who live on a farm, and I love to pull harmless pranks on each other. I just bought 6 big metal road "crossing" signs (chicken, pig, duck, flamingo, pirate and rabbit crossing) and am going to sneak out there and install them on their property when they're gone. What can I do before I put the signs up on their property to "lead up" to this prank and make it more funny? (Elaborate, creative, non-harming answers encouraged.)

2006-12-11 04:52:18 · 4 answers · asked by steve d 4 in Friends

I am 25 years old my mother, father, and sister still treat me like im only 15. I have been married twice both ending in divorce. My parents are divorced and everytime I do something anything my family's always got a problem with it. I have a one year old son and live with my boyfriend. My boyfriend helped me get out of my moms house because she kept stealing my money and his money as well and lies about it. I have been called a bad mother, a drug addict, an alcoholic. That is just from my mom and sister. From my dad I get crushed for being poor, filing for bankruptcy, not being able to get my child support, and not being able to pay my dad for the car I got. only owe 250 dollars. I have not touched drugs since 2 years ago when I got kicked out of the army, I only go out on special occasion and drink and never drink at home or around my son. If I do drink, I won't lie I am a binge drinker. How can I tell my family what there saying about me is hard on me? Should I disown them?

2006-12-11 04:52:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, I've been talking to, texting, and calling this girl at my school who I like for about 2 weeks now. I told her I liked her about 2 weeks ago and she said she'd like to get to know me better as well. We were supposed to go out last Friday, but the plans fell through. She told me she wants to hang out in groups before we do any "one on one" stuff. I really want to begin a relationship with her, but I don't know how to turn the conversation down that path.

What are some things I should say?
How can I tell her I want to be in a relationship with her?
Anything I should avoid saying?

2006-12-11 04:50:32 · 2 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:50:22 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is love enough to make him come back.?
my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf

2006-12-11 04:50:22 · 8 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father has not spoken to me in about 5 years. Reason being I left home to go off to school. He was very upset with the fact that I went against his wishes, that were to stay at home and attend school. It's been 5 years since I have been able to spend a holiday with my family. My mother & I see each other once a week, b/c that's all we can work with. I made the attempt to go over to their home yesterday and try to repatch things up but before I could get there he was already cussing me out and saying that I wasnt welcomed. I dont want his aproval or his love I just want to be apart of my family again. The funny thing is he tells coworkers that he has a great relationship with me and that he has been putting me through school which is a total lie.

Should I give up?

2006-12-11 04:50:18 · 18 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family

Ok Look, i always have trouble finding gifts for guys!!!!! like on their birthday or christmas! what exactly do you guys like to recieve for gifts!!! ANYTHING AT ALL!!! Material or not...if you know what i mean!

2006-12-11 04:50:13 · 9 answers · asked by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 in Friends

*Ok,I stole this question from a guy but am curious to know what people think from the girls perspective...
"Sometimes I get a bit frustrated that my partner doesn't have a very high sex drive. I KNOW that sex isn't everything but it should at least be something. The only problem is that I just want it all the time and not even all the time but maybe 2 or 3 times a week...?? I'm 20 and he's 24; we've been together for almost a year. I know it's annoying to him and anytime I suggest it i get an "oh great" attitude so we don't do anything. It's just really frustrating for me, because I know he spends ALOT of time on his laptop looking at "stuff" and yet we never do anything. He said once that i was too easy.. but when I can get it I wanna take it, right? I have MANY appealing features and he always says he's lucky and I am SO HOT! I LOVE to try new things... but i've noticed lately that we only do anything when he's been drinking so then I start to second guess what he thinks of ME.

2006-12-11 04:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by anab113 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother's girlfriend is a *****. Everytime she comes over to our house she cooks and makes a mess and doesn't even bother to clean it up. Saturaday she brought some pizza from her job and made a mess. When i asked her if she could pick up her mess she responded i don't live her. THe one thing that really pushed my buttons is when i wash clothes and she going to wash instead of taking the clothes out and putting it to dry you throws it on top of the dryer and puts the dry one on there too. What should i do she gets on my damn nerves?

2006-12-11 04:48:48 · 3 answers · asked by ReyMysterio'swife 2 in Family

2006-12-11 04:48:26 · 4 answers · asked by trina f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need one because i get bord

2006-12-11 04:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by angel megan 1 in Singles & Dating

If your best friend no longer wanted to be your friend, would you want to know why? Or would you just accept that it was their decission and let them go?

My best friend is a girl, who I am in love with, and I know that she loves me too. We had a small falling out, and during that time she got married, but now, all on her part, she is wanting to hang out again with me. Seeing her, and being around her is just to hard knowing that I cannot let her know how I feel. She ahs apparently moved on, but I have not. So rather than continue to see her and suffer my heartache, I am going to tell her that at least for a while we cannot see eachother. But I know that she is goign to ask "why", so do I tell her? Do I tell ehr that I still love her and that I cannot stop thinking about her? Or shoudl I just say I have some things to deal with and that I will still keep in touch?

Just wondering what all of you think? Thanx for your advice!

2006-12-11 04:47:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together 4 months...already fell in love...both in our mid 20's. Her birthday is so close to Christmas that im having trouble deciding what to get her. I was thinking I would treat her to dinner and a show for her birthday. I bought tickets to the Trans Siberian Orchestra. The show is on her actual birthday so it works perfect except for the dinner. She eats dinner every year with her family on her birthday. So should I just tell her we do the dinner another time or do I buy her some earings or something else to go along with the show? For christmas I have a bunch of small thoughtful ideas, and I also plan on getting her a silver lockit with a pic of us together in it. I need ideas, comments, and suggestions here. Thanks people!

2006-12-11 04:47:33 · 3 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf who asked me to marry him, i don't know wat to say but i know i don't love him i just like him. he keeps on telling me how much he loves me but i just son't want to break hiss heart. he already toke me to meet his parents and i haven't even said yes yet, please help. he is cute and all but i'm just not interested

2006-12-11 04:46:44 · 31 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for 7 months and been dating for 6months well i found out 2 months ago i was pregant and he was so happy he start to cry , but here the problem im 16 and he is 21,is there anything wrong with that. we are so much in love and decided to spend the rest of our lives together, he buys be everything i want,my mom like him but when she gets mad at us she threatens to call the cops and put him in jail, we are havin a girl im just scared something going to happened to him, anyone got any advice.

2006-12-11 04:46:37 · 17 answers · asked by alwayz_n_trouble01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We ask men, about about their past, other women, crazy stuff that we know will actually hurt us a bit, are we crazy or what?

2006-12-11 04:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't people understand that there is a place way more greater than the one were in now. Life is only a test. Eternity is our home.

2006-12-11 04:45:48 · 19 answers · asked by Jstylez2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Similar to chicago girls but not exactly.

Lord before I lay down to sleep
I pray for a man who's not a creep
One who's handsome, smart and strong
One who's willy is thick and long
Oh send me a man who makes love to my mind
Knows just what to say, When I ask how bigs by behind?
And as I kneel and pray by my bed,
I look at the wanker you sent me instead

2006-12-11 04:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Budapest1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were dating for 3 months and he decided to break up with me because he is alergic to my cat. He went to his doctor last week and the doctor confirmed it. He does not want to get the allergie pills or the lab test. I think he is lieing

2006-12-11 04:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by red1967 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:45:38 · 16 answers · asked by sexi_brunette 1 in Singles & Dating

all i really want to know is what is expected. I am fine walking her to the door and shaking hands, in fact have twice, and there has not been a second date, yes maybe there are other reasons but both of them seemed to having good time, lots of laughing, touching of my arm/shoulder while laughing, then walked them to door, said had good time shook hands and left, and like i said no second date, so in todays world what do females expect when you walk them to their door?

2006-12-11 04:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by bugman 1 in Singles & Dating

man and woman i want you to use three words to describe your mate and tell why you think of him or her as these three words.

2006-12-11 04:44:14 · 1 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating

whats the best way to ask out one of your friends on a date without shocking them because youve never mentioned this to them before? i realy like her but i dont want to suprise her. plz help.

2006-12-11 04:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you feel like you need to get attention from husband? Don't feel attractive enough? Man always gone, with friends or his family how can you get his ultimate attention? HELP

2006-12-11 04:43:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

consult your mate in important decisions

2006-12-11 04:43:16 · 35 answers · asked by king2king2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce