Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

...or even thinking about every time you argue? I hate that I think about it all the time whenever I have a conflict with my husband. How do you avoid that thought, and what are the things that keep you from going there, to divorce where so many fearlessly tread in our society nowadays?

2006-12-11 04:43:16 · 28 answers · asked by shannonlilia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I got mine and slept like a baby. What am I supposed to do about the fact that he couldn't get his last night? Am I obligated to finish him off this morning?

2006-12-11 04:41:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What wrong with the young one's and equal age partnerss??

2006-12-11 04:41:52 · 35 answers · asked by technomix 3 in Singles & Dating

I have two boys ages 8 and 5. I remarried when they were 5 and 2. They know him very well and have come to love him very much. He is a lot better father then their real one. I thought everything is perfect. I brought these 3 people together and loving it. I recently had a baby. My husband does not have any children, so this is his first. Now his temper with "my children" is gone. That is now how he refers to them. I talked to him about it and he says that it is because they are not listening. He tells them to keep their room clean and they don't until we get onto them about it. He wants to have my 8 yr old be more responsible, like taking a shower everyday without reminding him. I understand him and think my kids should be responsible, but they need reminders. Now my kids don't always talk nice about him anymore and he always tells me when they are wrong and I have to punish. I feel that we are a family and no reason now that I have to be in the middle when we weren't that way b4 baby

2006-12-11 04:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is my problem: I know this cute guy who's in my best friend's class.....he talks to both of us....but talks to her with a better level of comfort...when I start talking to him.he actually blushes and says that I am too formal...he also says that he gets scared of people who have an extremely formal way of speaking...Since he is a decent, nice, cute and a smart guy..I thought being formal wud create a better impression...when i was speaking to him...He commented with a jinxed expression on his face........I wonder how Am I supposed to make this girl talk???....I remember when he was talking to me he was actually looking at me and giving me a nice cute...romantic look...Now how am I supposed to know whether he really likes me or not ?????????..Also he is quite a serious kinda guy with a professional sort of attitude

2006-12-11 04:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Nilima L 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U

2006-12-11 04:40:14 · 5 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand all the paperwork. I sure want to move on up though. I sound like a little kik but I am the Mother of 5 with an empty nest. Please Help Me if you know what I must do.???

2006-12-11 04:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 in Friends

2006-12-11 04:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night I walked into the room where hubby was typing something on the computer. He had told me earlier that he was going to email a long awaited email to his best friend from high school who had contacted him for the first time in 15 yrs last week. I assumed that's what he was doing and I walked in to the office just to get something and he immediately closed down the screen he was typing on and said "Don't sneak up on me like that, I'm doing something private here!" I said "sorry" and then just quickly got out of the room.

I then noticed that everytime I would even just walk by the open door of the office that he would stop typing and sometimes close the window that he was working on.

I can't imagine that what he was typing to his friend was THAT personal, and it seems to me that it must be something that he really doesn't want me to know.

We have a good marriage and I trust him. Should I just let this go? I'm really curious about what was so secret though?

2006-12-11 04:39:30 · 31 answers · asked by mkk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is no time left, Im very tired and miss my sons. I can not return until all is done to fill my promises no matter what.

2006-12-11 04:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by ganbrightar1 2 in Family

I have been married for 3 years, I have a 4 year old son with my husband. I have an ex, recently came back into my life. He wants me to leave my usband and be with him. My husband works hard and I know he loves me even though he never shows it. We fight alot, he slept with one of my friends and then hid it from me for 3 months, now she's pregnant and I don't know if its his, there is a week and half difference in time. I am trying to forgive him but I can't get over what he did. My ex came back into my life, but I don't hear from him until he calls and I can't reach him when I need someone to talk to. What we had was hard, it is a difference in location that tore us apart. But I feel there is something he is hiding to. Can anyone help me?

2006-12-11 04:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by miki c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 04:37:31 · 20 answers · asked by sam_rattle_snakey 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I was asking a female friend out on a date without using the word "date". I asked her if she'd like to go bowling or to a movie and then she told me she had a boyfriend, which was totally awkward but thats not what this is about. SHe did say that we could still hang out and stuff and said something about maybe going bowling with a group this weekend. I said I couldnt, but now I think I can. She also has a college exam today. I have the same class but at a different time so my exam is friday. I need to get in touch with her to A)find out about the exam so I can score high, and B)to let her know that I can go bowling this weekend so that we can discuss, who, when and where. The only problem with this is that I dont know when her exam is today. I dont want to call her during the middle of her test. Should I text her later to find out if she already took it, and then call her if the answer is yes? How would you deal with this?

2006-12-11 04:37:10 · 3 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Friends

I've been friends with this girl for about 6 years. She is the type that is very dramatic and needy in all her relationships. Well, we decided to roomate together (Big Mistake) She is OCD and thinks everything surrounds this. Yesterday I didn't want to be bothered with her because I have finals this week. She took it as me not wanting her to clean up. From there everything hit the ceiling fan and quite frankly I'm sick of her whining, everytime I turn around she need money for bills where I already paid my half. But, what go me the most is the fact she has lacked insurance on her car for over 6 months and because her finance company threatened to add it to the note. She wanted me to add it on my insurance and when I told her I pay mines in 4month installments and the differance would have to be paid immediately. She got an attitude and told me i get a statement first and pay it later. I told her then you do it on your own if thats the case. Am I wrong to say forget the friendship?

2006-12-11 04:37:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is kissing or licking the back of the booty a erogenous zone? Not the booty but where the spine end and the booty starts?

Iam 23 but the way.

2006-12-11 04:35:57 · 14 answers · asked by yummy_tummyus 1 in Singles & Dating

i been with my boyfriend for a year off and on and he has said he is faithfull but yesterday i looked in his phone and found numbers from people who has calling early in the mornings like 1am and 2am i called the numbers back and they were girls on the answering machine. so when i confronted my guy he said they were his homeboys that call him early in the morning like that i don't believe im but he says he would never cheat on me, he says he is with me everyday which is true but im starting to beleive there are ways for him to sneak behind my back and do things. do you think its time to end this? I love him and he says he loves me

2006-12-11 04:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by terrificlady 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a bit of a freak sober, but it's 10x worse when I'm drinking. I hate getting suckered into things when I'm drunk. Is there any hope for me?

2006-12-11 04:35:18 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. i was just getting up for a minute from the computer to use the lavatory, and i was running and i just crashed into our christmas tree. ouch............ seriously i slipped on the floor into it, and i bumped the back of my head !!!!!! owww the pain!! seriously!!! ummmm which is better to bring down the swelling ice cubes in a bag or an ice pack???!!!

hurry please...im like crying!

2006-12-11 04:35:16 · 18 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U

2006-12-11 04:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?

2006-12-11 04:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any factors that would influence your opinion on this? For example, children? Her working or not working? Housework division? etc.
If you answer yes, what is the economic or social level a man has to be at before he qualifies for this? Is it more on the economic, or more on the social?

2006-12-11 04:33:44 · 22 answers · asked by Sean J 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a virgin.

2006-12-11 04:33:10 · 8 answers · asked by CanIBeYours? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:32:38 · 16 answers · asked by thetruth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 19 and still a virgin and it seems that every guy I meet only sticks around to see if he can get lucky. What's the big deal? Why are guys so crazy and the "v" word? Any help would do.

2006-12-11 04:32:35 · 15 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Singles & Dating

i am uncle
many time
great one too

2006-12-11 04:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by james_siple 1 in Family

if someone is cheating on you ? they know that if they're cheating and if you find out you're going to leave them. but they keep insisting that they are not and on the hand they act like they are hiding something from you, frankly im tired of asking and I know that they are tired of me asking what would one do in this situation?

2006-12-11 04:31:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are friends and i can't even talk to him and she would get mad it's like i am losing both friends and i have nown him longer!!!

2006-12-11 04:30:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i cant help it to cry because the family that i taking care for 4yrs now broken for being self centerd and selfish of my ex husband..he cheated me and chose the girl.i know that im not with him beside because his working abroad and migrate in states.it takes long to get us to fix our papers to live in states,but he cant wait and his such a liar that he told me he fixing our paper but i was shocked that his living with the girl and have kids now.i waited him and i did my best to be a faithful a good mother and a good wife but this is what i got.i loved him so much and his the only man that i loved.it hurt a lot and its like craching my heart when im thingking of all the lies thing he told me.we have two wonderful kids and when im looking at them cant help it to cry because all i wish is to have a happy family.eventhough were not rich atlist a happy one.but he broke my family that im taking care of.im crying right now because i still love him,but im hurting also of what he did to me

2006-12-11 04:30:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am her husband and by right I should be able to do as I please. Any thoughts or comments that may sway her thinking would be appreciated.

2006-12-11 04:30:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce