i cant help it to cry because the family that i taking care for 4yrs now broken for being self centerd and selfish of my ex husband..he cheated me and chose the girl.i know that im not with him beside because his working abroad and migrate in states.it takes long to get us to fix our papers to live in states,but he cant wait and his such a liar that he told me he fixing our paper but i was shocked that his living with the girl and have kids now.i waited him and i did my best to be a faithful a good mother and a good wife but this is what i got.i loved him so much and his the only man that i loved.it hurt a lot and its like craching my heart when im thingking of all the lies thing he told me.we have two wonderful kids and when im looking at them cant help it to cry because all i wish is to have a happy family.eventhough were not rich atlist a happy one.but he broke my family that im taking care of.im crying right now because i still love him,but im hurting also of what he did to me
2006-12-11 04:30:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to hear that. Make sure that you file with the U.S. government so they know you have his kids. You may get some help. Also, make sure the person he is living with knows about the kids.
2006-12-11 04:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry of your broken family, I wished that everyone could take the hurtful pain away from you, but I can't, I prayed that God will hold you and give you the comfort you need. I prayed that God will hold you together and keep you strong as a mother of your wonderful blessing of children.
Let some time go by, before any rash decisons of you making for your future and of your children.
and it;s ok to cry, but not to long, ok, hang in there, some how there will be answers for your questions, and right now, during your hardest darkest moment, you need to foucs on survial and your children!
Find some support through family, friends, or even in church, and maintain yourself, exercise, eat right, and get rest, and keep your mental and emotional health to the best you can.
Go out and have some fun time with the kids, and even with the girlfriends, see a funny movie, but keep yourself busy, of thinking of him. One day, he wll see, that he had destroyed this relationship with you, and your children, by his selffishness reasonings, and let God take venges on him, not you.
Hang in there, don't give up on life, but do give up on him!
2006-12-11 04:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My marriage is also broken. Most times it feel like you world is coming to an end. Unlike me however you have two beautiful kids to pull yourself together for. Focus your energy on them. Try not to talk to him at all and move on with your life.
2006-12-11 04:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bless your heart....where can i find a good woman like YOU!!!!..you sound like the one ive been waiting for all of my life...iam soooooo sorry, you deserve soooo much more....but the best thing about this is the FACT that you have two awesome kids out of this, and those kids will love you, unconditionally and without prejudice for the rest of your life....sweety if you need someone to talk to, i will talk to you...email me...ccotter67208@hotmail.com anytime
2006-12-11 04:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by cott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one deserves to be cheated on and lied to. Try to get over him and find someone else, he's not worth it, believe me. You still have a family, you have your children. It will take time to get over the hurt, and believe me, I know. I had a cheating lying husband and I got rid of him and glad of it.
good luck and god bless
2006-12-11 04:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can definitly understand how you feel. I hope things get better. Maybe you can find someone who will accept you and your children and treat you alot better. Give it time.
2006-12-11 04:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sooo sorry to read of your pain and heartbreak. Only time can heal your wounds.
2006-12-11 04:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart get him for child support? What he did was wrong..I'm sure what he did was wrong....yea there are lots of losers like him....too bad they make babies
2006-12-11 04:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok.good luck
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2006-12-11 04:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋