I'm a bit of a freak sober, but it's 10x worse when I'm drinking. I hate getting suckered into things when I'm drunk. Is there any hope for me?
2006-12-11 04:35:18 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why change you sound pretty normal to me....p.s. get at me i dont mind treating at the bar!!!lol
2006-12-11 04:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drinking loosens up inhibitions and where as in the heat of the moment it may seem like a good idea and the person trying to have sex with you might seem like a good guy, chances are they only want one thing from you and you'll wind up feeling no so great about yourself in the morning. Ask yourself this - in the past couple drunken encounters you have had, would you have had any of them sober? If the answer is no, then next time you start to feel drunk maybe slow down, gain control of your inhibitions and take a step back to evaluate the situation. Hold onto that for someone who deserves all the freakness you have to offer. Also, take care of yourself, you come first and if someone doesn't like you because you refuse to have drunken sex with them, chances are they're not worth it drunk or sober.
Good luck!
2006-12-11 04:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by INS24106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be a good idea so as you don't end up with some STD or with child. Not only are you harming yourself but if you were to become pregnant then the child may be born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome which is for life. In addition the chances of being gang raped must increase dramatically while drunk. Hopefully as you mature and age this will not become habit forming as soon enough you will realize that you're never going to get a man who wants a girl with that type of reputation as a long term commitment and only for a good time.
2006-12-11 04:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you're just screwing the first man you see when you're drunk or if there is just one person you're doing it with. If it is with just one person then fine. Go ahead. But, if you're just randomly meeting guys and sleep with them that's different. If you care about yourself you would stop having drunken sex with random guys. Sure the alcohol makes you feel so good, but that only lasts momentarily. You need to think about the morning after. There's the worry about STD's, pregnancy, and how it affects you emotionally. When I was just a youngster I did the same thing. Luckily I stopped before it ruined my life. I realized that I was worth more and that I wanted more. You really need to determine why you are doing it and make a decision if you want to keep selling yourself short or make a change. Be safe.
2006-12-11 04:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by rosecoloredglasses4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really hate "getting suckered into thing when drunk"? I would think that you could quit drinking or stay at least sober enough to say no. But I really don't think you hate it at all.
2006-12-11 04:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you have any self control or self respect at all?
Is there any hope....yes, get a grip. Stop drinking. You are only hurting yourself and perhaps a child that will come from this drunken sex not to mention the many diseases you could contract and pass along to your next partner or even worse yet, your child.
Haven't you learned anything from the untimely deaths of the many celebrities who abused drugs, alcohol and sex who have lost their lives?
"He (or she) who doesn't know history is doomed to repeat it."
2006-12-11 05:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by latietee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let AIDS be what teaches you control babygirl! Find one freak that likes to freak you at any giving time of the day. Meaningful freaks have the most fun. A real lady holds the trone next to a real King! Wake up boo! and find your kingdom to rule that when you really playa babygirl! I'm mad at you staighten up and fly right. Much luv!
2006-12-11 04:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure there's hope darlin' quit the drunken state or you may wake up to your own " Coyote Ugly"! I worse yet, I got married to my waiter & don't even know his name! Taken out of a song text, but it speaks the plain truth. Most people do things intoxicated they wouldn't normaly do otherwise. Or at least they forget to take care of protection 1st. and guess what?
2006-12-11 04:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bullett Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always hope. Can't get suckered into anything sober?? If you can't then your answer is to quit drinking.
2006-12-11 04:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa babe. First, a freak never gets suckered. They do the suckering. It is a rule. Take it from a true freak. Sounds like you need freak lessons. E-mail me and I will try to pencil you in........
2006-12-11 15:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happens to me, when I start drinking, I get a little loose too...hahaha, but thats because you are feeling good, you are relaxed and happy and just want to have sex...just make sure that if you do it that it is protected and with someone you know..not complete strangers (that can be dangerous).
2006-12-11 04:37:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋