Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

all i really have is guy friends i dont really hang out with girls. he says that there is no such thing as guy friends and that he doesnt want me hanging out with guys. if i ever miss his fone calls he starts saying stupid things like what were u doing and accussing me of being with some other guy although sometimes he says these things in a humorous type of way it really annoys me, cause i dont mind a lil protection but den after he has mad his stupid comment he acts as though he doesnt care. also im bi at first he was cool wit me liking girls but later on he got mad cause i thought some girl was attracted. i really dont like to confront him about things like this cause he always makes it seem like its my fault, i love being with him, but i really dont know what to do with his issues and me having ANY type of friends

2006-12-11 04:30:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not want to consult counsellors or clinical psychologists in my city because I know most of them. But I need help with emotional problems which I am unable to cope with. So I would like to know if I can get help on the internet.

2006-12-11 04:29:53 · 11 answers · asked by surya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always know lust is a sin, but I always wondered if its bad to long for your own husband? What do yall think?

2006-12-11 04:29:52 · 14 answers · asked by TEXAS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 04:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by ddeater69 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been engaged for 4 years but i met a guy and i had physical relationship with him...my finace wants to end the relationship but i am certain i will not take such a step again in my life.. but i cannot satisfy him , he does not trust me no more.... i do not want to leave him.... what should i do? i am not in touch with the other guy atall.

2006-12-11 04:29:14 · 41 answers · asked by meeee m 1 in Weddings

i got married on july and spent one month with my husband then came back to the US. no we are about five months apart and we both have a hard time living without each other. i have college on Jan. but the immigration is going to take a while for him to come in. Should i go back overseas and sit with him untill the process is final or should i go t school and wait to see what happens. the thing is i felt like a queen with him and now i feel like nothing. should i feel like nothing and continue school or go back to my husband?

2006-12-11 04:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by mrsmoozab 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 04:27:45 · 15 answers · asked by shraddha m 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfrind see each other quite often because we love to spend time with each other. We go out all the time (bowling, pool, movies, dancing etc.) and sometimes we just hang out at his house. His mom cooks and he has cable, so his house is the hang out spot for us. The only thing is that I am afraid that his mom might get tired of me there all the time. Like I go there about 3x a week some times more/less. His mom only told him that she doesn't think that it's cool for me to be over when she's not home, but other than that she didn't say anything else. Yet I still see it like after a while of seeing me so often she may get tired of me. What should I do?

2006-12-11 04:27:41 · 7 answers · asked by jessica M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the other man. She wants me to visit her house, they are getting a divorced and he moved out.
I don't want to visit, but she is persistant, should I go or wait for the divorce to be final?

2006-12-11 04:25:54 · 29 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love this man so dearly and i want to marry him but my family doesn't accept should i still marry him or i should i listen to my family?

2006-12-11 04:25:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm married to a guy that goes to work (he travels for months at a time) and is the bread winner of the house. He leaves the finances up to me, pay the bills and see to everything that concerns bills or repairs and domestic responsibilities and even his corporate charge account wont get paid if I don't demand for him to do it! He wont do any domestic duties and acts like he's on vacation when he does come home! When I have complained and demanded that he help, at least do some yard work or put up weather stripping, he starts ranting about how he makes the money and is so generous with it and he works so I should do everything else!
This past year or so he has really gotten ugly, dumping all the responsibilities on me AND making sure I was overwhelmed with crap like taxes unpaid, or being cited for any county violation like weeds, unlicenced car ect. then he tells me "we should see other people" He has cried, begged forgiveness and reoffended and I just want revenge! Got any ideas?

2006-12-11 04:25:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a class with him and in like 2 days it will be offically 1 month sicne we broke up. ppl knew we went out. and we broke up cuz our parents told us not to see each other anymore cuz of a mistake we made. well now when ppl just ask hima simple "are u still going out with her??" he answers like "o heck no!!" or "NO!!" and "never again!" as if i made his life a living hell. i dont do anything to deserve that and i want to kno why hes acting like that. he also has a new girlfriend, freakin 2 weeks after ourbreak up. and i can tell in class he trys to brag, and he acts all cocky by talkin to everyone in class as if it doesnt bother him. i want to get another guy so it looks like im not lonely and to make him sumwhat jelous. but one of my bff told me not to, and that guys are different and hes probably not even thinkin bout me. is all this true? why is he acting like that? i mean we dont even talk anymore i dont even think he looks my way,but idk cuz i make it a point not to look at him

2006-12-11 04:24:54 · 29 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

I understand that you have to work during the day, but when you are away for a few days on business, what do you do at night?
Gentlemen's clubs?
Bars?
Restaurants?
Stay in the hotel room?

2006-12-11 04:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by Wendy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

wat is life?wat is the aim of life?

2006-12-11 04:23:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

are there any single women out there without major baggage? i seem to attract women that are still getting over their exes or have some sort of drama going on...maybe its cos im a nice guy who i know how to look after my girlfriends....i want to meet a sweet intelligent woman who can make me laugh...any out there or am i living in a dream world ha ha ha

2006-12-11 04:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by kiwitboi 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote to a girl on a social network site approx. five to six months back. And I get a reply now first thanking me for writing then saying - "don't want to read too much into this...but in case if you were interested, I actually have a BF"

If she has a BF then why write back now after six months ? What does it mean ? Should I have to write back ? Pls advise.
Thanks

2006-12-11 04:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 and he's 20! Anyone done it befroe how did it work out. I feel really embarrassed and I lie about his age.

2006-12-11 04:21:39 · 18 answers · asked by Alisha B 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.

2006-12-11 04:21:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4mths tomorrow and i love him so much,but the only problem is that we dont really live in the same area.(and i dont want him to hurt me)

2006-12-11 04:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 04:20:24 · 6 answers · asked by Jessy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can chat friends be good friendz?

2006-12-11 04:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex picks up our daughter everyother weekend and recently called and cursed at me so then my husband and i told him not to call over here any more and hes mad so now he drop her off yesterday and said for now on his bringing her back an hour later since hes not going to be calling anymore and i'm only going by the court papers on the visitation. and he said if we don't like it to take him to court. should i let it go or do something about it he the one making everything harder and on top of that he had not paid child support in 8 years thats how old our daughter i got my first check hes crying over 54 dollars

2006-12-11 04:19:12 · 9 answers · asked by coolmesillyme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ran into him 9 months ago and we hit it off,i was still bitter about catchin my ex of a few years cheating on me(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman,things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into him again 2 months later and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I sent him atext a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him 6 months later at a party,he walked in with another girl,saw me and looked away.Why?

2006-12-11 04:18:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See when I went to my ma;s house this weekend I came in from Virginia she llives in Ohio. She asked me to talk to my sister about what I went through with boys and sex. But only thing that I went through with boys is stupid and over and shes not going to get married any time soon. How can you tell your sister about boys and the effects and dangerousness of sex?

2006-12-11 04:18:14 · 22 answers · asked by Nakeya C 1 in Family

What should I do If my cousins Baby daddy stairs at me like if he likes me or something but he's way older than me but really cute

2006-12-11 04:18:03 · 9 answers · asked by Lil' Momma 1 in Friends

I am actually more than annoyed. Yesterday my husband of 25 years and I were going to do a good cleaning to the house. I ran up to the store to get a cleaning supply. Before I left, I told him I would take care of the papers, please leave them alone. I told him I didn't want to fight today so please leave them. They were bills and receipts on the desk that needed sorted and filed. I do all the paper work and I hate it when someone messes with it. I was gone 30 min and in that time he had piled up the papers and moved them to another table. There were a million other things that he could have done. This is not the first time but it is the most deliberate. I realize that they annoy him but he cannot deal with them, we have tried in the past. I cannot always keep papers put away due to other details that need to be dealt with in the house. I find this a very serious issue as it shows passive agressive behavior and a true desire to annoy me. What do you think about this?

2006-12-11 04:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to get my cheating wife to go to marriage counseling. She wants to keep cheating on me because she is not sure of me being able to. A little background- I had major surgery around a year and half ago. Nearly died. She took care of me. Recovering from the surgery it took me about a year to recover and become functional in bed. Turns out she cheated on me during that period. Said she would stop once I recovered. I thought once she saw I was healthy enough she would stop. But she still has cheated. She now admits that is for two reasons. 1) She discovered she likes F'N around with multiple partners and 2) She is afraid if she gives up guy she is currently sleeping with and I get ill again where does that leave her? How do I respond to that? We have a severley autistic son so trying not to break up home.

2006-12-11 04:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who should move out? the man or the woman?

2006-12-11 04:17:13 · 35 answers · asked by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife have been married for some time now and I really want to please her to the most that I can. We have tried a lot of different things and she loves it all. I am wanting some sudjestions of more that I can do. As I said she loves ANY thing.

2006-12-11 04:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by youranswers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I call her on her cell phone and say "Hey whats going on?" casually. She replies, " Geez, I'm at my mothers, can't I visit my mother?"
She made it sound like I asked her where she is at and what she was doing like I was riding her butt wanting to know where she is all the time in front of her mother. That's not right is it?

2006-12-11 04:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Wondrin Dude 3 in Marriage & Divorce