Married woman wants me to visit...?

Question

I am the other man. She wants me to visit her house, they are getting a divorced and he moved out.
I don't want to visit, but she is persistant, should I go or wait for the divorce to be final?

Answer 1

I'm surprised you have "Insightful" in your screen name. It is sort of ironic.

Answer 2

Please do be mad at what I am about to tell you.

First, you should have never gotten involved with her in the first place. This is an indication of her character. You don't want to get in the middle but it's a little late for that. You are in the middle. You may even be the source of the problem. I'm not trying to blame you for her inability to keep her legs close and to stay faithful to her husband but you should have ran like hell when she told you that she was married.

Don't make the situation worse by going to that house. Do you realize if you go, then you are sharing the same bed that she has shared with her husband many times over?

Take yourself out of the equation until the divorce is final. If you think you can have a future with an adulterous woman then wait for her. If she can't understand that you want to wait, then you have your answer, don't you.

Answer 3

Wait till the divorce is over. The other man usually gets blamed for being a home wrecker. If you don't want to go then don't. Simple.

Answer 4

you know if she cheated on her husband she will end up doing the same thing to you and you should be involved with another woman if she is married that is adultery and it goes the same way if you r not married that you should be involve together in the bed mostly because that is fornication and plus you should wait until the divorce is over but don't be having sex if y'all ain't married save it for when y'all do get married
good luck

Answer 5

Honey, I would say go with your instinct. I understand the pressure that is being put on you by her but tell her you would love to but you just don’t think it is the right thing to do right now. Tell her that if she wants, she can come to your place (unless you have a reason for her not to). But you don’t want to be there and have her husband come and create some big scene. Please, wait. And for others who read this, don’t get on him for dating a married woman, he didn’t act alone she wanted it also and she knew she was married. So ask yourself, if she didn’t mind and was in a bad predicament why should he.

Answer 6

Tell her that you can't come visited. Go to her after the divorced.

Answer 7

If they are separated then there is nothing wrong with you and her dating. However, if you are the other man as in she is still very much married and wants to have her cake and eat it too, then you should wait until she gets divorced.

Good luck!

Answer 8

Are you in love with her? Or are you just horny? Is she in love with youor just horny also? Like some have said above, she could do the same to you, so could you really ever trust her? Do you think she is a good person? Do you want to be a good person? The answers to those questions should help you dicide. Good luck.

Answer 9

Most defiantly, do not step one foot in her house as long as she is still married! That is how lovers are shot and murdered. I live in Arizona and there is not a month that goes by that I here it in the news, about lovers being shot in the home by the ANGRY EX!

Answer 10

WAIT!!!!! you dont wanna get caught in the house by the husband!?!? anger will provide him allot of extra strength and he might shoot you for taking his wife...dont play with another mans wife and since you are already doing that play from a distance !!!

Answer 11

If she's really persistent and you feel uncomfortable about going to her house, invite her somewhere else where you two could hang. Why does it have to be her house, unless she's asking you to move in...