I ran into him 9 months ago and we hit it off,i was still bitter about catchin my ex of a few years cheating on me(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman,things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into him again 2 months later and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I sent him atext a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him 6 months later at a party,he walked in with another girl,saw me and looked away.Why?
2006-12-11 04:18:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he has moved on, with his life....Not wanting to play the waiting game of what is going to happen with you and your EX
2006-12-11 04:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think you should forget him. If he still cares for you and is interested in pursuing the relationship, he would have made some attempts, but he has not.
I really feel you made a mistake when you asked him to stay overnight and sleep in your bed. Sorry, but you just shouldn't do that with a guy. That is just way too "coming on to him." Men really do not like that. They want and enjoy chasing the girl, not having a girl come on to them like that. Sure, at first they like it, but after they are away from you and start thinking about it, they have a tendency to back off from the situation. I always say, "If you like a guy and are interested in him, then let them know you have an interest, but until you really have something more serious going, you just gotta play the game, by letting them chase you and wonder what you are doing and where you are. Let them wonder how you feel toward them. Honest, I have lots of experience at this, and I know. I know they are the very few exceptions, but follow my advice, and you will be much better off!
Just do your best to get this guy out of your mind. Go out with friends, and have fun.
Good luck to you!
2006-12-11 12:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was interested in you and you never really gave him a chance. You were so busy worrying about your ex until u didnt notice him waiting for u to make a decision between the two of them. He couldnt wait for you. He was there for u when you needed a shoulder to lean on. He knew he was treading in dangerous territory when you invited him to stay the night with u knowing he was your ex's friend. You should have taken that hint. No wonder he is upset with u. I would be too.
2006-12-11 12:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweetre2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you can't expect him to wait around for you forever. I am sure what you guys had was good while it lasted but he has needs and even though he may like you he has to move on with someone who shows him some interest. This is a case of you move or lose. You didn't make your move so you lost him to someone who is showing him some attention. If you want him call him, don't text, let him hear your voice and talk to you, but only if you really want him. To me it seems as though you don't because you aren't really doing anything to get him.
2006-12-11 12:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still got a thing for you but is trying to get over it. He looked away when he saw you because he can't quite deal with being around you again yet.
I'm afraid unless there comes another time when you're both single this will be one of the big ones that got away.
2006-12-11 12:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm-better just move on--sounds like friends is all you'll ever be. He may be backing off for the simple reason that he feels you and your ex are still an item? He doesn't want to go there at this time.
2006-12-11 12:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took to long and he found someone else. Or maybe it was too much baggage and the new girl didn't have any. Who knows? Ask Him.
2006-12-11 12:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is smart to know that he must keep away from what he cant get, since you have too many issues.
2006-12-11 12:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might like you but be scared about the drama involved with it!
Good luck !!!!!!!
and try to talk to him about it!
2006-12-11 12:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lil' Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he was with a jealous girlfriend.
2006-12-11 12:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋